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Me and my ex boyfriend been together for nearly 4 years and we have broke up and made up many times.
I know its quite a toxic relationship

For example:
We argue... and one of us says:
"Im done"
"Im packing my stuff and leaving"
Then we break up and no contact

Then a week or 3 weeks max... we go back together
he's usually the one calling me first to talk

Last week we argued again and I told him im leaving and packing my stuff
At first he's like
"Why u doing this again? Dont waste mine and your time.. you should have left if you dont want to be together anymore"

Then i kept saying it

And he said
"Do whatever you want.. im done bye"

We haven't spoken ever since then
Its been 1 week

Me and my ex boyfriend been together for nearly 4 years and we have broke up and made up many times.

We argue... and one of us says:
"Im done"
"Im packing my stuff and leaving"
We break up
Then a week or 3 weeks max... we go back together
he's usually the one calling me first to talk

Last week we argued again and I told him im leaving and packing my stuff
At first he's like
"Why u doing this again? Dont waste mine and your time.. you should have left if you dont want to be together anymore"

Then i kept saying it

And he said
"Do whatever you want.. im done bye"

We haven't spoken ever since then
Its been 1 week

Me and my ex boyfriend been together for 3 years
I stayed at his place every night
So he gave me spare keys to his place

Last week we argued and I ended our relationship
He went to work
I told him I will pack my things and leave
And he goes "do whatever you want"

I was really angry so I did a petty thing...
I took his airconditioner remote
And tv remote

But he never texted and asked for them back..
Not even the spare keys
haven't heard from him since last week

Why?

We have broken up and made up multiple times tho...

I help my ex with money when he was my boyfriend.
he is poor.

he broke up with me
he says we have no future because I don’t have a career and he has no job & too old to start anything in his view

he didn’t care to hurt me even if I said I didn’t care if he was poor.

I understand this we have nothing but it doesn’t mean we can’t try. In my view

he doesn’t want to work a regular low paying job he sees it as losers do that.

I had to beg him to be my friend, after the break up. he didn’t want to even talk to me.
i begged only until I could feel better. he blocks me a lot of I say things that make him mad and I have to repeatedly bag him to unblock me because I’m lonely.

having someone to talk to helps and I don’t have money to be paying a therapist.

I have money because my parents have money.

fast forward to today, i am still depressed but feel less sad on days we talk

sometimes he makes me more sad but overall at least I have someone to talk with

back to the purpose of the question

his mom suddenly became sick.
since he is poor he can’t afford to go to specialists and can only receive the medical attention that is free

she’s been in the hospital more than a week now,

still no answers on what is wrong and the situation is getting worse

she has pain, losing her vision & today they diagnose her with COVID

No answers on the initial problem but now gave her COVID. She did not have it when she got there.

he asked me if I could help him with money again
so that he can take her to a hospital in a better city

QUESTION:
would you Help him with money if you were me?

he’s obviously not going to pay me back because he’s Poor

i was saving money to do surgery on myself for aesthetic reasons.

somehow feels selfish to say no and then use the money I have to make myself look better.
if his mom gets sicker or dies I would feel guilty even though it’s not my responsibility.

what would you do?
advice?