Yes!!! Leave!!! This is not a good person no matter how much you’d like to think he is. The fact that all of you are now living together is just a recipe for disaster. No person should ever be w someone who hates their children. Your children should always come first no matter what unless the kids tried to kill him or something. His ex is controlling him through those kids. Your life is never going to be happy w this type of situation w her around. I’m not even sure if it’ll be happy even if you two lived on your own. You need to realize when something is a lost cause, this being one of them. It doesn’t really sound as though he loves you. Not in the way you live home time you leave before your child is born, it’s only going to make things worse. His children will always side w their mother, at least for now. Which I’m sure she’s telling them things about you to get them to dislike you more. I don’t get why women do that. Get out of there.
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This is like the Brady Bunch and what a huge mess can you afford to break it off
What advice would you give someone who is telling you this same story? From your own words, the relationship is rocky. Neither of you likes the other’s kids. How will you ever have a healthy family structure that way? He’s controlling. You fight a lot. There is no intimacy. He doesn’t want to marry you. He doesn’t work. He threatens to take your child. What exactly are you hanging onto here? Neither of you could possibly be happy under these conditions and neither can the children. What you’ve described is a very dysfunctional situation. There appears to be no future. I would leave and get your unborn child out of there before that child is touched by any of this.
I wonder, Why this relationship started in the first place...
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I suggest get out of this relationship. He seems immature and could be dangerous.
It doesn't look like there are many reasons to stay
I don't know why you're still together with him
No offense, but what a shitshow. Get out of there.
RUN... while you still can
Yea i think so
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