Should I end this relationship?

[Anonymous]

Been dating a guy for 4 months. I can't really get to know him because he's a closed book sort of person, which he has admitted to being. I'm considering ending it, because I can't build trust in him due to him not being open. He said he's like that with everyone. I asked if In time, he opens up but he said "no , it's just how he is"

[Anonymous]

As a closed off person myself, I think 4 months is a bit too soon to open up to your partner lol but then it depends on how closed off he is to you, is he hiding things from you? Have you ever tried opening up to him first? Some people can take a while to start opening up but if he’s already stated that it’s “just who he is” then…

[Asker]

I'm very open with him. I don't know anything about him. If I question him to get to know him more, he changes the subject or is vet avasisve with his answers. After 4 months I should have an idea about who he is, but he's more likes stranger to me

[Asker]

Very**

[Opinion Owner]

Ah okay, well that’s difficult. He seems to be way too private, he should at least let you in a little bit but if you feel like he’s still a stranger after 4 months that’s not good…

[Asker]

Is it worth waiting a little longer? To see if he opens up

[Opinion Owner]

It’s all completely up to you. If you want you can wait just a little bit longer and give him the benefit of the doubt but if you feel uncomfortable then it’s totally okay for you to walk away. At least try to see if he’s making any attempts to open up, if not then he doesn’t understand that in relationships you need to be soMewhat open and vulnerable to create a connection.

[Asker]

thank you. You have been very helpful

[Opinion Owner]

You’re very welcome, good luck!!

[Jojojojojojojo]

How? like u kept asking different questions and he refused to answer?

[Asker]

. I don't know anything about him. If I question him to get to know him more, he changes the subject or is very avasisve with his answers

[Jojojojojojojo]

U sure that person is trustworthy? Sounds like he’s hiding sths. Maybe he s seeing someone else?

[Asker]

Yeah, that's crossed my mind. I really like him, and thought he'd open up over time. But he hasn't at all

[spartan55]

Congratulations, you picked a dud boyfriend. It happens.