Does he have a right to be angry?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago. We still live together for the next month. Last night I went out and ended up meeting a group of people, we went back to one of the girl's houses and I didn't come home until 4 am. My ex called 4 times and text me but I never read any of it or answered the phone. I didn't do it to spite him. I was having a good time playing piano and guitar with this group of girls/guys and drinking. I didn't want to ruin it.
When I finally came home he was raging. He called me disrespectful, said I was out fucking some guy, and I was a liar.
My ex knows who I am, he knows I don't enjoy casual sex, I don't sleep around, that I have never lied to him and I was nothing but loyal.
Yet he called me a liar said the fact that I didn't let him know I was okay or answer his calls makes me a horrible person, disrespectful and he is disgusted by me.
It's really hard for me not to care what he thinks about me. The breakup was his choice but I am still in love with him. However, I don't plead or beg so I accept the breakup and I am trying to move on.
Why would he accuse me, and make me feel like I am some kind of disrespectful whore.

[Bgghhh]

What the hell. He has absolutely no right to be angry and how dare he!!! I know you are still in love with him and its difficult for you but Im happy to hear that you were still able to enjoy a night out with your girlfriends and forget about it. Maybe he's angry that your not at home in bed crying at the fact thst he just broke up with you. How dare he!!! Try get out of there ASAP and when you leave have nothing else to do with the idiot. Your better without him. How dare he!!! Thats digusting behaviour from him. He does not own you. He sounds like the biggest Jerk ever. You are making a lucky escape from this idiot. Find a good guy who does not treat you like that. He is a fucking scumbag!!!

[Asker]

I have been dealing with him treating me like I am the worst person on the planet. It’s hell.

[Bgghhh]

Im so sorry you are going through this. Can you get out of there as soon as possible?

[Asker]

I am trying to be gone by Monday. When I came home last night from watching a movie.. he called me a liar again and said he didn’t have an ounce of love or respect for me.. he then screamed in my face “I don’t care about you”.

[Bgghhh]

Just leave there ASAP!!! Stay with a friend or family member

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. You should tell him that since you’re no longer a couple it no longer concerns him where you go or what you do. He seems butthurt that you’re not at home crying and begging for him back. I would agree that it would be disrespectful of you to do this if you were the one who had just broken up, but since it was him who broke up then in no way are you in the wrong for this. He made his choice.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for the reply. I am hurting. I don't feel I deserve to be called a liar or for him to make me feel bad. He just makes me feel so bad. I am starting to really think his decision to leave me was actually a huge benefit to me. He is mean.

[noohair]

The male ego is as fragile as an egg. Once cracked, it does not fix well. He broke up with you. I guess he did not think out all the unintended consequences. He can't have it both ways. You sound like an adult. He sounds like a spoiled child. Good luck and live looking forward. All the best.

[Browneye57]

Wow, you two know how to party.
Either get on or get off, but quit playing this shackup game like a couple of amateurs.

[Asker]

Huh, what are you talking about lol?

[jahaims]

He still has feelings for you or is a control freak. Tell him you aren't his girlfriend anymore so he has no say in your life and if he keeps harassing you, you will block his contacts.

[Oigit]

The moment he dumped you is the moment what you choose to do became no concern of his.

[DyingLately]

Well, you're not dating anymore so who cares. Do what you want

[Pyrofox]

Probably assumed you dumped him for another guy.

[Asker]

He dumped me.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes he does