I'm upset angry and worried about my brother. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm upset because my brother is blind to what his fiance does. She gets very angry at him, says he can't do anything write and boses him about like he's her slave.

I'm angry because he won't listen to us. He just defends her. To him anything she does is her messing around.

I'm worried because I want him to be happy. For him to be with someone who treats him right and who makes him happy.

Some of the things she does and say i have cried over. I haven't told my brother that. She acts all bright and bubbly around relatives and friends. Around me she is dead quiet.

She goes mad if my brother is late or if he messes around.

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7 mo

Her and her mother won't let him do his ironing, cook or clean. He tries to help them but her and her family won't let him

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7 mo

He ignores me a lot. Whenever he is around all talks about is her. She treats him awful and doesn't care.

[DannyUk2017]

Open you'r brother's eyes if you have to, even smack him to reality... tell him that he lives in a Toxic relationship, and he will end up very depressed... and that depression will lead to something else...

[Asker]

I have talked to him about this and he won't listen.

[DannyUk2017]

Then there is nothing more you can do, then let him face the harsh reality, he might have to go himself through the harsh situation so he can wake up to reality...🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

He just defends her

[Anonymous]

Maybe confront the girl and let her know you know how she treats him and its not okay.

I wouldn't sit back and not say anything to her

[Asker]

My family barely sees her. She won't drop in for a visit. Only for a family occasion or if they are going out somewhere and visit us will we see her

[Opinion Owner]

Go to her place and confront her than.

[Billlewis]

What does she do that upsets you?

[Asker]

She says he eats too much. Gives out if he is late or not ready when she arrives. Makes him do things she can easily do while she is talking to people. Says that he can't do thing that he actually can do. She doesn't like him messing around having fun.