We are friends for so long.. I recently realized that I think I am thinking more about what I will wear when I am going to meet him.. also when he brings her girlfriend (they recently started) I don't like it, it kills my vibe. What should I do? I know what I am going through is not RIGHT and I don't know why I do and feel like this.
1st, I doubt he's "just a friend." He give attention, he wanted sex, you friend zoned his ass. So it remained as such until he finally got accepted it and is moving onto a chick that gives him play. That's just my assumption.
With that assumption, I'd place bets you just miss being the center of attention. Be real with yourself if that's the case. Do you flick the bean while you think about him? Probably not. Do you fantasize about him blowing his load inside you? Probably not.
I think you need to remember why you friend zoned his ass from the start and then also remember why you let him orbit you.
Again, I think you just miss being the center of his attention. You like attention... that's not a bad thing. But you're going to see that attention drift because that woman likes it too... and she'll let him blow his load while you wouldn't.
Love is letting go, not of people or things necessarily; but of what we want. If being with this other woman makes him happy- do you really love him if you inwardly dislike his happiness?
Life’s too short to fuddle around with could’ve would’ve or should’ves.
I found myself in this situation. I flat out told her I love her and I walked away. It was truly what I felt about her. I knew her happiness was more important than mine. I made that stand to let go, even if it meant I’ll never see, talk or touch her ever again. It hurt like hell, but she was free - her wings opened- and she went on to live a happy life. What else could I have wanted for her?
for me, I learned the power of love and became a stronger, happier person. Even if I’d did get what (or whom) I wanted.
I don't know about love, but you could potentially like him or just want him to yourself in a territorial way. But I think it could be potentially liking him. But he does have a new girlfriend - it is impt to respect his new relationship and happiness. Dont be that weird female friend who makes it awk for him and girlfriend. Be the bigger person. If things don’t work out for them and you realized it actually means something to you, then, shoot your shot.
You may have liked him but remember he is your friend and he has the right to be happy too. Focus more on yourself, don't think about him so much, don't worry too much about him.
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Figuring out if you're in love with your best guy friend can be a confusing and emotional process. Here are some questions and signs to help you understand your feelings better:
If he’s constantly on your mind, even when you’re not together, it might be more than just friendship.
Feeling jealousy or discomfort when he’s with someone else can be a sign of deeper feelings.
If you feel nervous or excited when you see him or talk to him, this could indicate romantic feelings.
Thinking about what it would be like to be in a relationship with him, or envisioning a future together, can be a strong indicator of love.
Wanting him to be happy, sometimes even more than you care about your own happiness, is a sign of love.
If you’re attracted to him physically and desire more than just a platonic hug, this is a key sign of romantic interest.
Feeling a unique bond or chemistry that you don’t experience with other friends can suggest deeper feelings.
While this is also a sign of strong friendship, the way you support and comfort each other might have a different, deeper quality if it’s love...
Do you mean his girlfriend? Anyways I think because he has a girlfriend it’s best to not pursue anything. A girlfriend is just a girlfriend. I just want you to know that if it’s meant to be it will be… Either you’ll move on and fancy someone else, or he will eventually break up and you can shoot your shot.
If you wanna express your feelings just to get things out there. I would be VERY careful and not do anything while he’s in a relationship. If he ever asks you just be honest or don’t answer. But make sure he knows you’re not willing to pursue anything if he’s in a relationship.
It’s pretty normal for friends to catch feelings. In fact I think best friends into lovers can create the strongest bond. Much better then someone you simply hooked up with. The downside is that it comes with a bigger risk. That if things don’t end very well it could ruin the friendship. But I think if two people genuinely love one another they should give it a shot
Do you wish to continue being his friend? If "YES" the answer is as simple as letting him be. If "NO" this might require you talking to him before you decide to either sever the relationship or become his girlfriend.
Men and women are different. Women think that we can understand hints and read minds. We can't. Guys are simple, if you have questions, speak slowly, us simple words and don't leave anything to interpretation. You need to speak with him in person. Face to face. Then you can figure this out.
I wish women would stop playing mind games and stop the practice of their outdated & flawed mate selection program coz clearly its not working out for them (Shooting aimlessly and randomly even at their own feet)
It's easy. Just wait until they break up, then tell him how you feel about him a few weeks later. That's what you do. Super easy. Good luck & be ready when the time comes.
this often happens. He might feel the same way about you. Maybe you can ask him. It does not have to be weird.
This is gonna hafta stay silent for now. Don't be a homewrecker and bide your time.
Naturally opposite genders have an attraction together
It doesn't matter. He isn't in. love with you
That isn't love
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