I'm in love with my best guy friend :( he says he's not into me, but sends mixed signals? please help?

[Anonymous]

Im so confused :(
Once he told me "you’re like my best bro friend" and I asked him "what do you mean by that?" and he said almost angrily "it means I’ll never have sex with you." He always says "you're like a sister/brother to me” He’s CONSTANTLY making me feel ugly. He says things like "you have a great personality" or "you actually looked pretty THAT day" BUT he's super protective over me. He's always telling me to get laid and get a man, but as soon as a guy looks at me he grabs my hand and says things like "hold my hand like you mean it". These guys were asking him if he was ‘hitting it’ and instead of telling them no and hooking me up with them (like he said I should do) he tells them ‘f*ck yeah’ If we're out dancing he'll pull me away from any guy and dance very sexually with me pretty much ALL night. He told me he was about to beat a guy up because he thought he grabbed my butt. We sleep together in the same bed all the time. He'll pull me super close so we’re breathing down each other’s necks. He begged me to let him give me a hickey and when I refused he held me down and did it. Twice. When I was mad afterward he pulled me in close and said “I can’t help it you’re my bae I have to show everyone” and when I was trying to cover it in public he stopped me and said “let everyone see it so they know you’re mine” He does the same with kissing. He tells me to kiss him on the lips and won’t get out of my face until I do. One lazy morning he held me down and started kissing softly all up and down my neck. He grabs my butt under my pants when we're cuddling. He always says “wherever I move you have to move we can’t be apart” and "can we just get married? No I mean it" or "if we're not married by 30 lets marry each other" and "can you imagine how cute our kids would be?“ He tells me I’m “bae” to him. He told me “why don’t you just have sex with me your first time?” while standing between my legs.(I’m a virgin). I’m so confused:( What do you all make of this? :(

[Mgoods]

I definitely think you should approach him with your concerns- you should outline the behaviour you've noticed from him, tell him how you feel and ask that he be honest with you about his feelings, otherwise you will dismiss the potential for a real relationship with him and look elsewhere. He will need to respect that, if he doesn't want to be forthcoming with his true feelings; I definitely feel he has some degree of attraction to you.
He seems to play a lot of games, you should probably think about if you'd want to be in a relationship with someone like that.

[bruceq]

He is a sick little boy who also has anger issues. You need to distance yourself from him because he is going to hold you back from finding a good relationship. He has many issues which you can not resolve the greatest of which if you ever do get together he will be violent.

He is not friend he is just warm body to fill moment. Let him go and then you may find happy life.

[stevie123]

He says he will never have sex with you but grabs your butt, kisses you and gives you hickies? Seems a little messed up.And why are you sleeping in the same bed? Other than the first line of your question, how do you feel about him? Do you egg him on with sexy talk? You say you love him but don't want to kiss him and you haven't had sex with him.Have you grabbed his stuff?

[meeemza]

those actions are actions of a guy who is sexually attracted to you... what you should do... I can't really give an advice on that... coz that is a very confusing situation.

[jack15]

It means that HE respect you as a girl simple as that and when the time comes he will be the one telling that to you. He's not ready or confused right now.

[lkjhg69cum]

Sooooo... Have sex with him if you want to...