What do you usually do to get over a heartbreak?

[Akam93]

Go out and drink, sit at home and cry, or go on a vacation. Etc.

[ohsheeT]

I look at it for what it really is. There's two or three different types of heartbreak

So one day you're sitting at home doing nothing the next day you meet somebody and they start coming over every day and you start doing things together and you're out of the house and you're having fun and you're thinking you're really like this person and every single day they open up a new door for you so you can laugh and enjoy and have fun and then one day they're gone and..

And each and every day that you were smiling and you were happy you have to understand the only person that can do that is you because you are the only person on the inside of you to make you do that the person you were with might have been fun you enjoyed they open new door to new avenues so you could smile and laugh and have fun the weather you're feeling pain or happiness you are the only one that can control that you're the only one who can allow that because you're the only one on the inside of you...

So now you have to go back to being lonely and your energy your spirit your soul I mean you really enjoy doing that kind of stuff because the person was fun to be around

the only real way to get over something is to accept it you have to let it go accept it and go out and have fun even if it's by yourself go out and smile laugh enjoy

Find a friend go out and do something with his friends so you can make your friends smile and be happy you have to replace whatever it is that you lost with something it doesn't matter what but the first thing to do is accept it and acknowledge it and I also guarantee that the faster you do it the happier you're going to become...


Now there's another type of love and break up to where you meet somebody you'd like them they like you you can become friends and you're in a relationship for a little bit of time and you break up. And you can't eat you can't sleep you can't do nothing you can't even function and those are the worst type of breakups because what that is is you didn't fall in love with the person it's your energy the fell in love with their energy this is going to be hard to follow I shouldn't even go here we all have energy we are All made of energy it is our teacher it is our guide it is our soul or spirit it's who we truly are on the inside but anyway when that part of you falls in love with that part of another person and they become one they mourn each other you know you're going why am I acting like this I've never acted like this before well it's not you it's your energy within that shouldn't have gone here it's probably way too deep but anyway that's another breakup and you have to acknowledge it those are sad breakups but anyway I hope that helps if not send me a message I'll tell you another one

[libsaretards]

Binge drink, eat comfort food and play GTA.

[litty736]

Cry. Relax and eat comfort food. X

[Chazmatazz269]

I drank alcohol, a lot. It’s almost essential for men. Drunk men are permitted a wider range of emotional expressions than sober men. So to get from denial to acceptance in time to get back to work and be productive the next day, booze is almost necessary.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I'm not saying this is healthy, but I tend to work and do tons of projects. Some of that is OK, but I have to take the time to cry and grieve or I'll just block it out with activity.

I also like to paint and listen to music or go for long walks/hikes. Watch a movie, meet friend to have coffee or walk, write.

[sadstrawberry]

My ex double dated and I cross checked with her the girl itself.

So I dated a guy briefly 1-2 times and had a lot of sex like 4-5 sessions in a day twice and it was much better than my ex.

Again I slept with someone and the sex was mind blowing

So and a lot of encounters. And it was ravishing.

I moved on. Hehe. I'm single though but you can simple start dating someone else and make love!

[GoodManDave]

Eh... I've had a LOT of heartbreak over a lot of things, so I'm used to it. I usually just try to distract myself and bury myself in work (or hobbies) until I can process it a bit more dispassionately.

[rosemilk]

you could do those things

or you could something more productive after crying. like enjoy being around friends and family. playing with your pet (s). enjoying some good food. eat some dessert. buy yourself something nice

[OfMiceandMen]

I go on a road trip for a week. Last time I travelled from Ontario through to Bar Harbor Maine and went up and down the coast throwing my kayak in the ocean and back lakes. Such a good trip.

[Chazmatazz269]

Do you remember where you were when you reached acceptance?

[OfMiceandMen]

@Chazmatazz269 the second night in Vermont, I was staying in the Green Mountain National Forest area. I was out hiking and I sat down on a stump in the forest, closed my eyes and accepted it. Still thought about it some more on the trip , but I think seeing new landscapes helped ease me into it.

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s fortunate that you know your code. Too few do.

[OfMiceandMen]

@Chazmatazz269 I think a lot of people tend to dwell on it too long that it spoils their happiness for a good portion of their life. I try to stay positive and not let a break-up, break me down.

[Chazmatazz269]

I would agree, time not withstanding.

[HawkPerception]

Nothing really. My motivation for success being the best revenge usually equals my depression from being alone again. I just go about my days the same way.

[Lliam]

Stay busy to keep my mind occupied. Keep moving forward. Let the pain dissipate. Work on myself (physically and mentally) and seek new romance.

[Crimsyjo]

Jump back into bed with the much younger hot stud I was hooking up with before my relationship lol 🙈🙈🙈

[DishLady]

Stay active and don’t leave too much room to dwell on the breakup.

[DizzyDesii]

Go to the casino. Listen to dancey music about being single. Start flirting with new people.

[DiegoO]

I wrote lot of poetry. Deleted almost all the pics, ...😅☺️. I threw away almost all the personal stuff we had of each other.

Beside gradually stop texting her.

That's about it.

[Anonymous]

Vacation !!! TRAVEL !!! Reinvent yourself. Boss up.

“Always stays gracious, best revenge is your paper.” -Beyoncé

[exitseven]

I used to drink heavily and chase the hangover with a ten mile run.

[LiamJHayden]

I just accept that it wasn't meant to be and move on. I am not someone who laments and let's yesterday kill tomorrow.

[TonyMetal___86]

Not matter what you do, you're going to keep feeling heart broken because it takes time to heal and not everybody can heal 100%

[Agent_Elflord]

Last time I had a breakup I was 15-16, drowned myself in video games for a couple days.

[ryancg]

Hole up in a motel room with a stripper, cocaine, and booze.

[negrl4a69]

Not much u can do. Just stay busy try not to dwell on it

[whistlingwh0res]

You still young. You can start $elling. Easiest way to get out