How to get over a heartbreak?

[Anonymous]

so this man broke up with me after a girl just pops up out of nowhere. I asked him about her and he wouldn’t tell me nothing. I later find out he was married and now they expecting a first child. He told me they been together since 2014 and that he been waiting on her to finish her government contract. He told me that he wasn’t planning on staying with nobody or seriousness with anyone. He told me when we first met, it was love at first sight. I always felt that he was waiting on somebody because of how he been acting towards me.

I texted him today and he told me to leave him alone. He said “it’s in black and white” that he didn’t want me. He didn’t want me or wanna be around my 4 kids. He told me he’s not leaving his wife

[Anonymous]

I’m not trying to be rude I’m just blunt, but you need to do better about the men you pick. Unless all 4 of your kids are from the same man and you’re divorced or out of a long term relationship with the BD, then you should know by now how to be a little less naive when it comes to who you pick. There were signs and red flags that you chose to ignore for the sake of love and not being alone. Then you bring this person around your kids after what? A few months? I am so sorry you’re going through this, heartbreak is the worst but it sounds like you should’ve known better.

[Anonymous]

It's a no-brainer. He is married, get over it and move on.

[KostasKouvalis]

Make a list of all their negative qualities and find someone else

[hotman5]

it will take some time