If someone told you they’re not mentally stable for a relationship, would you respect their honesty?

[Anonymous]

How would you react to that? They’re aware being in a relationship isn’t the greatest idea and they’re giving you a head’s up on what they’re like before you decide you want to be with them.

[Iron_Man]

I believe that’s the oldest excuse in the book when a girl just doesn’t wanna date you they always bring that out. I’m not ready for a relationship right now. I’ve got issues. I don’t really buy that. They say I don’t have my life in order

[Asker]

So, what? You want them to date you and fuck you up too? And then have you bitch about how they were awful when YOU ignored their warning?

[Asker]

Don’t say it’s an excuse when they’re trying to tell you they don’t want something more. They’re trying to save from making a bad decision. But, you’re too stupid to see that.

[Asker]

But, go ahead and date that girl. You just don’t have the right to complain how miserable you were with her.
I SO wish people would have more common sense than this 🙄

[Asker]

Tell me, what do you want a girl say when she’s not in the right mind to date?

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry that I came in here. You’re the most negative user that I have seen on here.

[Asker]

And yet, you haven’t done anything to block me.

[Iron_Man]

it’s not necessary to do that I don’t like blocking

[Asker]

Why not? You don’t like seeing my posts, right?

[Iron_Man]

I never even dated a girl where I was ever in that situation where she would tell me that she’s busy with her life. This was before we even went out she said she’s got to get her life in order that it’s not in order. And I was very young

[Iron_Man]

I really don’t see many of your post

[Iron_Man]

I don’t like blocking people

[Asker]

And you respected that, right? She didn’t want to drag you along in her mess.

[Berethor]

I prefer honesty, but it really me who decide if they are unable to be in a relationship?

[Asker]

I mean they know themselves better than you know them.

[Berethor]

I would not be so sure, as they want relationship while saying that they unstable for it.

[Asker]

That’s why they tell you in the beginning in the dating stage what they’re like.

[CrabCakes11]

Wanting something and it being good for you are not the same. A kid might want to eat a pound of candy every day, but it doesn’t mean they should

[Berethor]

Yea but it weird if relationship not good for someone, unless she is aromantic asexual.

[dustybiker2]

It does cover all manner of sins. Pushing against that would show the other person clingy and desperate. Honesty can be priceless.

[curiousmandy]

Of course I would respect that. And I would appreciate their honesty and vulnerability

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely, I'd tip my hat to their honesty. It's a rare treat to find someone so self-aware and brave enough to express their current state of mind. Reacting? Well, first off, you've got to appreciate the honesty—it's pure gold in today's dating world. I'd respond with understanding and respect, emphasizing the importance of their mental health journey. Whether you decide to wait it out, offer support as a friend, or gently move on, remember, it's about respecting each other's current life chapters. Navigating the choppy waters of love and mental health requires a hefty dose of empathy, patience, and a sprinkle of courage. So, hats off to clear communication and taking things one step at a time! 🎩❤️

[77five]

No becaise he wasn't being honest. He was just in love with someoen else

[NathanDavis]

there's no reason for me to disrespect them... one way or the other, I just wouldn't

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Honestly is the best policy in most cases & in this case I would respect your honesty.

[molonski2]

Depends how well they know you I guess as to whether you give their opinion any credence.

[bobalife]

Yes, of course, it is their truth. I respect where they’re at and I also moved on.

[LaurenM1997]

Of course cause I would want them to be honest with me

[Dongie]

I'd probably figure she just isn't mentally stable for a relationship with me.

[Sasquach]

Heck no that sounds like the biggest cop out ever

[Asker]

So someone putting their mental health first is considered a cop out?

[Asker]

I have a feeling you’re just in it for the sex.

[Jennz6]

Yes, absolutely

[FuqUFggt]

Fuck yeah. Meaningless crazy sex is the best

[sheikalana]

Absolutely.

[handsomelad70]

I sure would.

[ellefia]

Yes of course

[OtterMan68]

yes, very much so

[gorydetails]

I can fix you

[mayurr]

Yes..

[eagle1951]

yeah

[indianguy786]

Ofcourse..