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I think if everybody - or even most - people stop allowing anon posts on their questions, there would be less problems on GAG.

Anon users are insecure; that’s why they go anon, and add to that trolling sometimes. Still insecure.

Some are understandable, like with mine I’ve NEVER had an issue with a female going anon on my questions. They never try to cause problems. But there are certain guys (yes, I know which ones) who get offended by what I say or mad at me because I won’t sext them so they troll my posts.

Anybody wanna boycott it with me? I’m no longer allowing anon posts on anything I post. If you’re not secure then you shouldn’t post to me. #secureusersonly #teamselfesteem

He went from being heads over heels for me and addicted (his words), discussing meeting my family and marriage, to breaking up suddenly. But he didn't ditch me/ghost afterwards and kept talking almost daily as he said he wanted us to stay friends and keep me close (we still talk 9 months after the break up although we had a phase where we didn't speak) but he keeps on saying we need to move on.

In his break up message he said that he was "Scared" , he said that he liked me and could still like me, but that he felt that there were too many obstacles (I assume he means the distance, and the fact that we are not ready for marriage because we're both students). That he didn't want to drag me for years without the certainty of marriage since he still needs 4 years or so before being able to get married. That he is scared my parents want me to marry someone from my country, and he is scared because so many men wanted me.

Some of the mistakes I've done as a woman when I think about the relationship retroactively:

- Once mentioned to him that my mom prefers me marrying someone from my country.
- Talked about other guys to make him jealous and get his attention (I'm immature i know). Turns out it made him insecure, i think.
- Told him about a guy who wanted to propose to me.

PS:
- We're both 24
- Both (religious) virgins waiting for marriage
- His religiosity often made him guilty over being overly sexually attracted to me
- It was an online relationship , we both live in Europe but in different countries.
- None of us has had a previous relationship.
- None of us dated or looked to date after the break up.

I don't want to give him up because I feel like we're soulmates (although I don't believe in the concept).