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So i've recently started dating a guy 5 years older than me..(I'm 18, he's 23) And on the first date he asked me how I want our relationship to progress. He was like; so do u wanna hook up or something? Or are you looking for something more serious? I said I was looking for something serious and he agreed. The second time we're meeting he tells me that we're not in a relationship and that he'd like to.. Well.. Give me oral next time we meet. I declined, but he kept pushing. And in the end he said that if everything is fine with us after one month of dating, we should consider a relationship... But there are just so many things wrong with that for me. First of all, he's moving too fast. With oral, I mean. Secondly he wants to have sex without being in a relationship.. WTF. He also said he won't get serious too fast because certain women have not treated him well in the past. Ugh.! He also said; If U wanna date another guy u can.. Or something like that. I'm confused.. I like him, but he is pushing me a little bit. He also mentioned that we might have zero sexual compatibility and if he doesn't see how a relationship is gonna work if it's not there. That's why he mentioned having sex before the relationship. Help :/

Date 1: You go bowling. You start teasingly joke how you will beat him in bowling, you catch him rolling his eyes. He says he thought you would be shorter in person.
Date 2: He's late to your date by 1 hour due to him burning his foot and him being drunk last night.
Date 3: He takes you to a carnival type thing, wins you a pikachu. Then invites his friends after. You tell him you don't feel comfortable meeting them yet but he insist they come.
Date 4: Before the date, he asks you to be his girlfriend while drunk. He's still on the dating website. When you ask why, he says he still wanted to see who he would match with. Tells you he's falling for you hard and he might love you.
Relationship 1: He tells you he's been to jail and has a DUI. He starts touching you and you tell him it's okay for him to do this. He says, I'll touch you there if I want. You guys try to talk a lot on the phone but he ignores/ hangs up while playing computer games.
Realtionship 2: He's constantly drunk and when you bring up something, he hits your car window in frustration. He tells you you're bullshit in a jokingly way due to winning a game. In front of his friends he told you to get your ass back on the game. You noticed he has puke spots from 3 days ago still on his bed from a few days ago.
Relationship 3: He has a picture of a girl he used to have a fling with in his phone recently and says he only hung out with her to make sure she didn't get taken advantaged of and r*ped. He NEVER likes any of your posts on facebook... But he's constantly like another girls stuff. Everything she posts. When you ask him why, he says he doesn't like pictures or go on social media a lot but he's ALWAYS on there.
Realtionship 4: Unknown best friend who is a girl you never met emerges and he starts talking to her a lot.