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I really love my girlfriend's personality. Its everything that I want in a partner. I've been with her for almost 2 years but for the past year or so I've found her making out and sleeping with other guys. Since she's very outgoing and nice (confused with flirty) everyone tends to end up liking her. I don’t want to leave her but she's cheated so much on me already :( can't even count how many times she has.

I think the first time she cheated was when we went to a party, got a little buzzed. She hopped on guys shoulders all throughout the party. Later that night one of the guys she was being flirty with ended up having sex. My friend yelled at me to come over in the room and stop her and so I did. I asked her what the hell she was thinking! She was very sorry and gave me the excuse of “I get so pressured into things”.

Another time I found out she was seeing another guy temporarily because she felt he needed “the help” to get back on his feet. They had sex all the time. After she quit seeing him she admitted she did like the sex but was manipulated by him into thinking it was okay. That was during a time I was on meds that lowered sexual drive.

Countless other times where she was making out with randoms and hooking up with guys in school she had crushes on. I was so disappointed we took breaks from each other. Whos knows who she slept with during the breaks. She comes back everytime saying she doesn’t want nobody else. I feel so used and betrayed by her. She was the first girl I've ever had a relationship with. So far its left a bitter sour taste in my mouth and I hate it and makes me sad. I love her though and have so many great memories (known each other for 4 years), its hard to let go.

What should I do? Resolve the issue, talk it over with her so she won't cheat no more?
Or leave her, move on and find someone who won't cheat on me?

Assume that you're already attracted to this person, here's the personality:

I'm a nice guy. I like to help people, but mostly because it makes my ego feel good.

I'm a listener and can kiss ass or provide healthy criticism depending on what you wish.

I'm a joker and have a bit of a dark humor. I like making people laugh, usually by mocking silly moments in my own life. I also laugh at the stupidest things.

I try to be friendly with everyone and back off when my presence is not desired.

I speak multiple languages, and like to travel when I'm not broke. I'm also the kind of guy to go to the beach, go hiking, go look at forts and check out museums.

I'm a bit of a smart ass, but I tone it down for serious matters.

I'm not religious, but I can accept some religion in my life if it makes my partner happy.

I'm in college right now studying to hopefully get a high paying job in the medical/psychology field.

I love arguing, but not for the sake of pissing off people, rather to have a healthy debate on matters.

I practically listen to every music genre except country or death metal.

So anyways, what would rate my personslity out of 10.

1-4 = Does not appeal to me
5-7 = Some good and bad, but there's hope
8-10 = I dig it :p