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For example, I've literally seen black people get into relationships with white people and are thankful their child is born with "good hair" as apposed to the curly hair associated with black people.

I've seen Indian men and women who were born in Western countries like America chase down and only pursue white people for the sole purpose of having children with lighter skin tone and therefore higher on caster system that still prevails in Indian society. And for Asian women (not including Indian), a lot of them tend to only want to go out with white guys as a sort of social status symbol.

We even see this level of self hatred and brainwashing to some extent with Black NBA players who will drop their women to pursue white Caucasian women when they move up the totem pole.

I know some of you may think it is just preference but often is built on some racist belief on how one sees the world or one skewed perception of a given race.

I have a friend Alex (62 year old male) whose divorce will be final next month. He was married for 28 years, and the last nine years were devoid of love or sex. He separated from his wife about a year ago. He wanted to start dating, used an online service to meet available women, and candidly disclosed his status as "separated."

He met Linda (56 year old female.) The picture above is not her but she looks very similar; she is a very cute lady. Alex and Linda are in the same profession (architects) and have many common interests. They started dating and their relationship quickly became physical. Alex was very enamored with Linda. They spent weekends together, took a few weekend trips together, and occasionally saw each other during the week. His divorce is not yet final and he is not eager to find his next wife but he will be monogamous with a woman who is a good match for him. Alex is not "in love" with her but has great respect and fondness for her.

At a certain point, she disclosed that she has a serious and progressive renal disorder that will likely result in her needing to have dialysis on a regular basis. People who are on dialysis usually need to have it done three times per week and they cannot travel anywhere without first making arrangements for dialysis at their travel destination. It means that she will progressively become an invalid and her partner will need to be her health care assistant and attendant. But, at present, she is still active. And he is very healthy and actve.

Alex wants to gradually break off the relationship but he feels guilty about making that decision. However, staying with her means a lifetime of taking care of her. So. . . if you were Alex, what would you do?