Search Results: shy when it comes to approaching guys

How do I get over my nerves?

I've really lost my confidence with women. Been in a relationship for so long. Don't get me wrong, I can approach ladies, and I can sit with a group of them on a night out. But when it comes to any kind of physical...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How to tell the guy you like him?

So guys the traditional way is for the guy to ask the girl out when he likes her, but were in the 21st century and now girls can take charge. But how do we do it with out freaking the guy out? I have a crush on this guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I stop intimidating boys?

I'm eighteen. I've been told that I'm very pretty but that I'm intimidating, especially towards younger guys. Personality wise I'm basically one of the guys. I still dress girlie though. I'm polite and if a guy comes up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

How should I approach her?

I'm a manager at a restaurant. there is a girl that comes into the restaurant and we always share eye contact and smiles. When I'm serving her, she always talks like she just ran a marathon trying to balance breathing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are shy guys completely screwed when it comes to women?

I mean if a guy is too shy to ever go up and approach a woman or ask her out.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Eye contact dance / does he like me?

Well, there is this guy I really like and catch looking at me quite often (at least 3 times per class we have together). Sometimes I look in his direction and he looks back at me and he casts down his eyes. Sometimes I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Screwed up, sure this girl was interested but I froze when I had the chance to talk to her, anything I can do?

I'm 31, socially anxious when it comes to talking to new people. If I'm introduced or actually manage to talk to strangers I can get comfortable talking, relatively quickly, its just the initial start up conversation I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How to actually get over my shyness?

Okay so I am not really a touchy feely type of a guy and tend to be quiet when I am not joking around. A lot of the times when I see a girl I want to make laugh I just can't seem to, but most of the times when I am not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is a little nervousness good?

Women: Do you prefer completely confident men, the type of man that never gets nervous about intimacy or relationships, and never seems to get nervous by your presence or anything you do. Or do you prefer the man that...

powerpsi

Xper 6 Age: 34

Is this guy scared of me or something?

We use to flirt all the time, but often he would do something and literally run away. Talking was almost out of the question, although there were rare times where I would be in a position to actually be able to start a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How To Ask A Shy Girl On A Date? (The Right Way)

If you are reading this article, you are most likely having bad luck winning a date with that shy girl you've been eying for a while now. Or perhaps you just aren't sure how to approach the girl without making her too...

Living-the-ADvenTURe

Xper 7 Age: 34

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Interested in a guy at the gym?

So there's this personal trainer at the gym that I have the hugest crush on. He seems a little bit shy, and I have a gut feeling he's single. Every time he comes in the gym, I see him look around the gym, its almost...

maxnicole

Xper 5 Age: 36

What's this guy thinking? How can I approach him?

There's this guy at my work who I have a small crush on, the only thing is, I'm confused on whether he's into me or not. He comes off very shy and indifferent to others, so I used to never bother talking to him. However,...

m00sesaresexyy_x3

Xper 5 Age: 34

Relationships

A bit of a late bloomer when it comes to flirting/chatting up - where do I start?

hmm so when it comes down to it I'll admit I don't really know what I should be doing (i.e. what is expected from the girl/what they want when they show signs of attraction back) you see all my relationship/sexual...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

What the heck is wrong with me? I seem to repel women!

So, I'm 29 now, was intensely shy in high school, but did a tour in the military and some corporate work and now I'm back in a university, wanting to date again. So its my first year at the school, granted. I find this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How would you go about showing a guy you like him?

I'm shy when it comes to guys, but I try showing this guy that I like the same music as him and all, but I don't know what to do to show him I like him in a non-creeper approach. Any ideas?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I usually feel apprehensive about approaching women. Do women feel weird when the quiet guy flirts with them?

Girls, if you liked a guy and he seemed interested in you, would you rather him be down to earth and real or a guy who just plays the game and tells you what you want to hear. I ask cause I seem to have issues when it...

Razer

Xper 5 Age: 43

Fashion & Beauty

Why do I attract old guys?

I feel like my whole life I've met guys that just weren't right for me. I am always hit on by old guys and I like older guys but only in their 20's I'm 18 not like a guy in his 40's-50's. I thought it was the way I dress...

collegegrl18

Xper 7 Age: 34