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We had an argument last Friday. It started because I consoled in him regarding a best friend talking to an ex and how upset I was. He knew based on my tone that I was pissed. I don't care about my ex, it's the principal. I feel like my good friend knew things that only were between the two of us and for her to get romantically involved was disrespectful. Anyways, I told him how I felt simply because he asked. Within minutes, he flipped out and said that if it bothers me it's because I still love him and that couldn't be any further from the truth. I tried to explain to him that it's not the case and he hung up on me.

I waited about 3 hours for him to cool off and then I realized how incredibly foolish I was to tell him that. It's probably something I shouldn't have told him. I later called him and apologizing for telling him about something so irrelevant and uncomfortable. I told him that an area that I shouldn't have crossed. He simply said that he didn't care and said that I was inconsiderate and stupid. He said that he doesn't want a girl like that and this time said goodbye and hung up yet again. He tends to get very angry and I know it's all my fault. I just want things to go back to normal but it seems like he wants to leave. Should I reach out to him or wait? And why?

He dated a girl who lives on the other side of the country. He still is in contact with her. He told me he loves me a few days ago and I said he had to cut off contact with her if he wants my feelings to progress. He agreed to that. But how do I know he's telling the truth? I just saw that she sent him a message saying "eventually space makes a galaxy between two people.. let's make this not be us" it makes me worried he didn't stop talking to her. I feel like he's just enjoying the attention from her and really does care about me. He spends so much of his time with me. But is this something I will have to worry about our whole relationship? Is it worth it? This is another message he had with a girl. That he never told me about... I'm worried he enjoys the attention from other girls too much to be loyal to me. I'd what to do. I'm worried I'll get hurt worse the longer I'm in this relationship but I also know he really cares about me and if I stop worrying about what he does on social media that we would not have a single issue. The only problem in our relationship is this stuff. But this stuff really gets to me. What do I do? Is he capable of being loyal to me?

So ever since he started working again after being unemployed for 3 years he has been overly happy. Not the reason I think he is cheating. About 3 weeks ago he started nonstop talking about this girl he works with. Laughing while he is talking about her. Telling me about all these pet names the two of them have for each other. Telling me how much they horse around and raise hell together while they are working. I didn't start thinking he was cheating until I walked into the room and he tilted his phone like he was hiding the screen from me. And then about a half hour later he moved from the seat with me to the couch opposite from me and I was able to get a glimpse of him texting someone paragraphs (which is completely unlike him- he is a 3-4 word texter and always has been). He has been on his phone almost nonstop during this time and has been sleeping with the phone rather close to his face when normally he sleeps with it on our dresser. Also, he is now overly excited to go to work all of the sudden when not even a month and a half ago he was talking about quitting because he can't stand the line of work he is in. So his behavior has taken a complete 360 since he started talking about this Morgan girl. Oh, and he has also started to with hold sex from me. Makes up excuses almost constantly.

I asked him about it and he just walked away from me. He then told me later on that if I was going to question him then I must be hiding something and asked to see my phone. I gave it to him because he asked and I don't have anything to hide but he then refused to go through it and he just walked away from me, again. Where he won't talk to me about it; would it be justified if I went through his phone to get some answers? We have a baby on the way. I don't want to leave without knowing the truth but I have always been against the whole "creeping" thing. What can I do at this point? If you were me, would you go through his phone?

My boyfriend and I were together for two and a half years. he said I was the love of his life and we were meant for each other and he'd never find another like me. then he cheated on me and lied about it then broke up with me. this all happened nine months ago. He hooked up with another girl a week later. He said he still loved me and that we would get back together eventually.

We stayed in touch since the break up on and off, and hung out a total of 11 times since ending things. the last time we saw each other was about two weeks ago. each time we saw each other it was the same as when we were dating (kissed, cuddled, hugged, flirted, etc.).

now suddenly he says he is done with me for good. he said he had only been using me since the break up and has no feelings for me. he said he doesn't want me in his life or to stay in touch and continue seeing me. that he has moved on and I should do the same.

he says he has a hard time telling me the truth because he doesn't like to hurt my feelings. he said he still cares about me as a person but not how he used to.

is there any way I can get him back or is it too late? I was clingy towards him after the initial break up, but he got over it since we started hanging out again. I am studying abroad now until June. if I go NC now for 4 months or so will this make him miss me? will he ever regret his decision of leaving me?

He blocked me on all social media and has started talking to another girl. he says he likes her a lot, although he has been cheating on her with me for the past 2 months.

I feel like the reason he doesn't want to be with me right now is because he is not looking for a serious relationship, but perhaps down the road he may change his mind when he is looking to settle down.

any insight is appreciated! looking for honest answers! thank you!