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When my boyfriend and I started dating I asked him how many girlfriends he had before me. His answer was 1. Later I found out there was someone else. When I asked him how many girls he kissed he told me 5. I feel that its important to know your partners past because that way no one can say shit to you that you dont already know. 2days ago I found out he had so many more gfs and claimed yo not remember any of them which is bullshit. He responded by asking if I remembered every boyfriend or all the people I kissed.. which I do actually. He got more upset for me and said any person would think I am overreacting. But he never ever wants to speak about them or anyone in his past and when he does it is ow clear that he lied/lies about them. DO I HAVE A RIGHT TO FEEL HURT HERE? I dont even believe him about how many women he has slept with either. So how can I trust him when he has been lying to me for 8 years. He says everything before me doesn't matter.. but to me it does. WHAT DOÈS ALL OF THIS SAY ABOUT HIM. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME...

I really dont understand the hate towards hairy body especially female body hair. Is it really that important? Would you seriously leave someone because of this? I actually dont care but if it is that important for him, I would expect him to shave himself too. We could shave eachother lol. What do you think about this?

I was with my boyfriend one night when we first started dating and he was upset I wanted a night with my girl friend. I oversaw a text from one of his best friends with a girls name saying so are you going to go see _______? He responded been there done that. We never discussed it and moved along. Well now 4 months later we are out with his friends and he is being super jealous and petty and trying to pick a fight with me. As we leave a place to meet up with more of his friends he says you need to go home. I was like wait why? He was like because I think that’s what you should do. We get to the next bar and I don’t recognize some of the girls so I go to introduce myself and as soon as I hear the girls name I knew. I turned to him and asked why he didn’t tell me. I felt kind of dumb and I think because he didn’t warn me, never told me, nothing and was also told to go home before we went there it felt extra shitty. He had told me in the beginning of us dating don’t ever let me around someone you have been intimate with without me knowing and I told him the same... I did not react well to the situation to say the least. I would have been fine if he had told me she was there and who she was. I just felt blindsided and because he had been trying to pick a fight with me all night it felt like it was on purpose. Are my feelings justified?