Search Results: too needy

I barely ever see my boyfriend?

I feel like I never see my boyfriend, I don't know if I'm being needy and paranoid or if he genuinely never wants to spend time with me. We live 2 hours away when we are at uni and 1 hour away when we are at home. We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was I in an abusive relationship?

We broke up because he cheated on me. We dated for two years and by the end I felt like a shell of myself, anxious, resentful, not valued or listened to, and almost crazy and I’ve always been a confident person. Now three...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I love him but I have a gut feeling it’s not enough?

We’ve been dating for two years. He is sweet and loving most of the time, but I feel as though he doesn’t like going out and doing things or initiating. I feel like I’m the one asking or planning to do things besides just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend is ignoring my texts even after having a talk about it?

So yesterday my boyfriend and I hung out, I feel like I’ve been putting in more effort lately and maybe too much, he’s been feeling down a lot for no reason and I just wanted to make him feel happy and loved. But lately...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

If you chase a girl too hard can you ever get her back?

I really liked this girl I worked with. I had a girlfriend when we met so I never acted on it. When that ended we started flirting a lot. We were meeting in work privately having secret talks that kind of thing. One day I...

Johnny1988

Xper 4 Age: 37

Long distance boyfriend said that when I move to his country he will be good at sharing his time between me and his mother?

From what I tell , she is quite needy. My boyfriend said that he’s worried about how I’ll behave to his mom. I’ve told him that I’m gonna be lovely to her. I am so fearful of feeling like a third wheel though. My...

Anonymous

(25-29)

The Red Flags Of Domestic Abuse

Following from my previous myTake which attempted to highlight how domestic abuse against men is often played down or men themselves are completely unaware of the warning signs, I have decided to share those warning...

Hannah591

Editor Age: 31

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My boyfriend said he feels obligated to spend time with me & wants to spend less time with me?

What does this mean? I'm too needy? We only see each other twice a week. Now he only wants to spend Fridays together and a casual Sunday if he's feeling up to it. Is it possible I'm being too needy regardless of the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Receiving a text a few minutes after the end of the first date: needy or endearing?

You had a first date and it went very well. He/she looked like his/her pictures online. He/she was on time for the date. Both of you quickly relaxed and enjoyed the conversation. There were no awkward pauses and he/she...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

You had a first date and it went very well. He/she looked like his/her pictures online. He/she was on time for the date. Both of you quickly relaxed and enjoyed the conversation. There

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Top 5 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest Immediately

The other day I received an email from a 20-something woman asking my thoughts on why this guy she had been seeing might have suddenly lost interest. She explained her story and how he seemed very interested during the...

MzAsh

Master Age: 41

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Should I double text, call, or forget about this girl?

So there's this girl who was a former co-worker at my old job, before I left. On my last day we pretty much talk, worked, laughed, etc. At one point she even mentioned I was pretty cute. Towards the last few minutes I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do guys leave me all the time?

I’m not exaggerating the situation but I think I am completely done with dating people because I’ve been hurt and cheated so many times. I go on dates, I’ve never been awkward and there’s usually a good time guaranteed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I being unreasonable?

Hi all, I am in currently long distance relationship. I want to visit my boyfriend who's studying overseas. I asked him how long I can visit him and he initially said 6 days. I have trouble understanding as to why he...

Au2nomous

Xper 4 Age: 37

Flirting

Is friendship stronger than love?

Maybe its a bad question but me and my friend have known eachother for 4 years now. She said to me that she finds me atractive outside and inside (my looks and my behaviour). I was wondering if that was a hint to try...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I pushed the girl I'd been seeing for 6 months away by being too needy, is it possible to win her over?

So we'd been seeing each other for about 6 months and during the end of the spring semester I got needy. I focused more on her and us than I did on myself and more important things. For some reason I got anxious and every...

Thatonedudeoverthere

Xper 5 Age: 28

I pushed the girl I'd been seeing for 6 months away by being too needy, can I get her back?

Thatonedudeoverthere

Xper 5 Age: 28

What do you think are the most common mistakes that men and women do to mess up their relationships?

For me, it's men can get too comfortable and ignore the girl. They think they woo'd her and have her now, so they don't have to try to pay attention to her anymore. For the girl, she acts like she is too needy of the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys my boyfriend because of me lost his job. I feel terrible?

I was needy. He told me he didn't have time for me but I pushed him to give me more of his time. They fired him because he didn't have time for his job and it's all because of my neediness. I feel guilty and terrible....

Anonymous

(36-45)