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For some reason I find that there is a sense of right and wrong, and my sister said "what are you? the family police?"

Things that I consider right or wrong:
1. beating up your mom and almost killing her (youngest brother, YB)
2. purposely stealing someone else's husband from his wife and kids (sister did this, S)
3. Judging someone as less than human if you have to allow them to stay in your house but if they stay in your house you better treat them like a KING (YB)
4. buying stuff to just return right away after you have used it for a week (YB)
5. thinking you are better or more important than someone, and therefore they need to worship you and give you all their money (YB)
6. demanding someone service, like they live with you and they want you to go buy them coffee, clean their clogged toilet and also give them 1000 a month (no they are not paying rent, and no they are not helping with chores or anything) (Middle brother, MB)
7. stealing 200,000 from your parents (YB, and MB)
8. demanding that someone do everything for you, just because you exist (YB, MB, S)
9. cheating on your spouse whom you have a child with (S)
10. having a child out of wedlock with some guy who is married and has kids, breaking into a whole bunch of motels and also doing all this just to piss your parents off...(S)

Any of these do you find immoral or right or wrong? Or do you think all of this is just ok as long as you feel good about it? ofcourse it is all right to my siblings AND my parents, because they ALLOW these things to happen! They encourage it, and tell me to STFU because if I say anything then it will taint our "family" therefore just be quiet and I'm the crazy, evil, psycho one... because I don't steal money, beat up my parents, and cheat on my spouse and steal a spouse from his wife and kids.

What do you find right or wrong? Or is there no such thing, as long as it feels good?

I was arguing with my friend about men. She told me :«men are as faithful as their options! It’s piss me off when I see an ugly broke loser dude claiming «I will never cheat on my girl! She is the only one for me! 😍» yes she is the only one for him because she was the one that wanted him!» For me it’s true In one side because a broke ugly dude will have less opportunities to cheat Than a rich handsome man. But opportunities is nothing, what we want is intentions. I’m not really okay about it, since saying that it’s like claiming that a beautiful, successful, woman will be a bitchy wife, I know a girl, who has a stunny face, a sexy shape, and work as a successful physician, and you know what? She is entirely devoted to her husband, and want a happily family life and she like cooking her husband and kids favourit meal everyday, despite all the hot doctors that tries to flirt with her. One of them was the director of the hospital, and he was the type of man that can make Ryan gosling looking like a crape, but she avoids him every time, because she loves her hubby, who is not even attractive as her, and is not wealthier since they have the same amount of money. In the other hand you can see a girl that don’t even take care of herself, dress like a tomboy, and have a big belly, but still manage to cheat on her boyfriend with all the guys she meet, because of the the lack of respect she have for her boyfriend and herself. It goes the same way with men. You can see an ugly jerk, with an unattractive face, and a repulsive body, cheating with his girlfriend whenever he has a chance to do it, and sometimes even treats her badly. So why can’t this work with a hot man, juste like women? I think faithfulness is more about education and what you were taught to do as a kid. I don’t want to believe that men are as faithful as their options, because this will mean that they’re not faithful anymore! So for me, it’s more like «assholes and cheaters are as faithful as their options!»

the king of england.

he was 49. she was 17.

i mean come on, how much more powerful and rich can you get? no expiration date there, right?

i mean didn't she even try to hide the affair from anyone except her husband.

she was the queen of england for less than ONE year because of this.



then they all got their heads chopped off.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_Howard

I'll put two examples and will give both of these women a name.

Susan
- A holier than thou, virgin waiting till marriage that belives everyone should follow the traditional gender roles in a marriage. She thinks lowly of progressive people that don't agree with her. She believes women that want to be independent ruined it all.

Mary
- The other extreme of an open marriage where both husband and wife exchange partners. Mary tries convincing others that living that life is great in order to avoid jealousy, cheating, lies, etc. Both her and the husband think those that don't follow that lifestyle are close-minded.