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Long story short: my boyfriend and I were together for just over a year, we’ve both been there for each other to doctors appointments, he helped me lose weight and encouraged me to get my drivers license and was always cooking for me... always very affectionate as well... his parents really love me as well - especially his mom... she was even inviting me over for the holidays and teaching me about Judaism and baking with me and driving places with me... my boyfriend and I were also living together at his parents house for 5 whole months as well and everyday I was visiting him at the hospital when he ha surgery and he was ther for me when I had a minor surgery as well... he was in jail for 3 months cuz he drive with an invalid drivers license and I waited for him and everyday he was calling me and his mom and telling. Me that he loves me and wants a future with me and was making future plans with me... also was encouraging me to spend time with his family... now when he retired back, we had some miss understandings and a fight and we took a break.. he met this aggressive bitchy goth chic who always fights him and abuses him... he was begging me to come back for 2 whole weeks and even gave me a mermaid necklace cuz he knows I love the little mermaid...
he always hugs me and kisses me in his sleep and whispers that he loves me so much and sometimes even holds my hand in his sleep... but that other abusive woman is still around and he tells me he doesn’t love her at all and that I have better qualities than her... his mom even tells him that she prefers me over the other woman and his dad can’t stand her either... his parents tell him I’m more suitable for him as well... this other woman bruised him and beat him up as well...

he someotimes gets into bad/sad moods when I leave his place... does he still love me and seem to regret the break we took?

Before my pregnancy I had a nice body and still do. After I give birth I wanted to hire a male personal trainer. My child's father thinks I'm going to fuck the personal trainer and says that if I get a male personal trainer we're breaking up and co parenting. Is this abusive, controlling, manipulative or a sick strategy because he wants out of the relationship?

A couple people that know me well, thinks my father was just as responsible too. What do you think? When I got arrested at age 10 for serious things even for that age, my father blamed it all on my mother.

- My parents divorced since my toddler years; live far from each other and didn't get along
- From Mon-Thur I would stay with mom; Fri-Sun with dad
- My mother was abusive sometimes when drunk. At times she was on drugs too.
- Some of the random men she brought home did things... I used to think I was consenting.
- Mom hardly took me to school and I became streetwise at an early age.
- My father was unaware of all this and to him, I was a normal child. I felt different around him. For a split second or so, I think there was a bit of empathy reminding in me.

The outcome:
Initially held at a detention center but then institutionalized for 6 years. I hated seeing my father disappointed when cops were interrogating me. They caught me in the lie and I ended up breaking down, threwing at my dad for comfort... not at my mom.