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This guy is unlike any other. I've been having dreams almost every night about me and this guy I know having sex. He used to like me and showed interest, but I was dumb and thought he was a creep. We only talked over social media because I have a bad history with his friends. In real life he gets really shy, turns red and tries to avoid me. I believe this is because he's never had a real girlfriend. I've never had a real boyfriend either. I tried to ask him to hang out and he was all for it, but then his friends convinced him not to go and we had to call it off. I think I might like him and I really want to hang out and get to know him better to be sure. Also, these dreams are making me really want to get sexual with him, but we are both virgins and his best friend was making him insecure about it. After he called off our meeting, we sort of argued because I was hurt by how he was acting, but it didn't end on a terribly bad note. The last time we've talked was a couple months ago, but I see him around, still awkward. He's not the type of guy to want to just hook up. He acts as if he's still afraid of girls because he never hangs out with any of them, yet he shows interest in only a select few, me being one. I miss our conversations and I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should initiate anything or just move on. Our conversations were always intelligent, not very flirty. We both are amateurs at talking to the other sex and I just need some advice on what to do or talk about. He's the only guy in my life that I'd consider going out with because he was really smart and could hold a good conversation. When I have these random dreams about him, they are always pleasant and loving, they are never rough or hurtful. He also didn't tell his friends he was talking to me online, until I made the mistake of mentioning it to a mutual friend. Then our plans got messed up and here I am. He's a year older than me. I even get jealous and nervous about him. LEAVE AN OPINION!!

So he's my ex's best friend. And he messaged me all of a sudden 3 days ago. We dont normally text but he just messaged me. And he be like asking me if any guys are wooing me right now and when i said no he said " can't be. You are so pretty , how can you have no suitors " then he said " you want guy A right " then i be like " no we are just friends ". He said " oh.. then girl a? " i be like " she's taken and im straight " he replied " ok u want me " i be like " no your for people to eat ( i call him broccoli ) " he said " or u wan ( my ex ) he can make u laugh like no tomorrow " and i be like " we argued and stop talking alrd " then he replied " oh.. why.. " so i told him the reasons..
Then now he's asking my weight and saying that im not fat and when i replied " bye " he be like " ok.. u want me to go " Yesterday , my friend unlocked his phone and i saw the girl my ex said he like was the first chat then mine was the second and my ex was the third chat on his whatsapp chat. I didn't managed to press into their chats tho..