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It's not me but it's my aunt's story long ago:
- She had a boyfriend and both were then 19 year-olds. The guy left on a train and promised to return on the same place. In tears, she promised she'll wait for him on the same train station.

She waited and he came back 11 years later. To her shock, he had aged badly (a lot worse than her), was fat, had undergone a horrible divorce (his wife cheated and left him for his best friend), lost his job and was a mess with old clothes. He claimed to always loved her and asked if she would settle down with him. She rejected him and said ''You're not my love I waited for. I waited for a brave, healthy and honest man not a desperate, wrinkled fool that only wants me as last option. I'm sorry but you're not the man I've waited for. You're someone I don't recognize. I'll now move on and seek my real man. Good bye''.

Needless to say she got married to someone else (my political uncle) the following year. Would you say her rejection towards her previous boyfriend was right?

My friend (guy) friends with this girl (married girl who do open relationship). One day, they had a hook up and occasionally doing hook up until things are falling apart because the girl is wanting more than just a hook up (she wants the guy to be her boyfriend although she has a husband). My friend (the guy) didn't want to get hurt in the open relationship so he just quit it. They stopped talking to each other and the girl moved away with her husband. The guy agreed to still be friends but only if the girl wants to just be a normal friend and not hooking up. A few months later, the girl keep on texting my friend asking to meet up to catch up on life. But my friend doesn't bother with her. Can they still be friends or should the guy just blocked her contact? If the guy should blocked her, why?