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I’ve been working for months to get the attention of this guy “C”. Like we were friendly but I’ve been wanting him to flirt and admit he likes me too. This week he finally confesses that he does like me but is trying to fight it off due to distance. Next thing you, know 4 other dudes pop up the day after. Like what are the chances and right before the new year. I brushed off the majority because they consisted of major dealbreakers. But i met this guy “K” who is literally another C but noticed me romantically immediately. The connection was nearly 10 times stronger and he's closer in distance. But i like that C and I worked up a friendship first. Its something I needed to do in past relationships that I did not. K told me to get to know them both but I know C would be totally against this because he’s already showing signs of jealousy when it comes to other men approaching me. Do I get to know K in secret or do i tell C? Plus K just got out of a relationship and claims he's not rebounding. I somewhat believe he isn't because neither was i. But I dont know what to do because I dont want to go into 2020 in another love triangle

1. He told me to run 10 laps and I weigh 145 pounds his ex weighs 250 pounds.

2. He begged me for a relationship but still had pictures and videos of his ex in his phone and her clothes in his dresser draws.

3. He was on dating sites flirting with other women. I made him delete them.

4. He used to stare at other women in front of me in public until I kept complaining about it.

5. I'm pregnant and he doesn't make efforts to check on me when I'm at home, I live two hours away. He doesn't check on me when he's working 40 hours at work.

6. He verbally abuses me and nitpick at everything I do and don't do.

7. He's been physically abusive to me.

8. I have a strong intituon he's never treated his ex this way and that he still wants her and loves her because he always defends her and speaks highly of her.

It's a lot of other stuff I'm leaving out but these are just some things. Yet he says he wants to be a family and have another child together and that he loves me, supposedly.