Search Results: is eye contact a good sign

Before any of you say anything. I wanted this to be a poll, hence why I didn't make it a mytake. So here it is.

Location:


Guys, if there's a girl into you. Lets say you don't know her and she doesn't know you. Y'all see each other in a resteraunt or perhaps a library. Maybe in class. Whatever the case may be it's a public place.

Signs:


(I hate the watermark, but it's a good example)

This girl gives you all the signs she likes you.
Eye contact? ✔
Smiling? ✔
Talking to someone else and looking at you? ✔

I mean add your own signs if you want, but it's clear that she's into you.
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The Decision (Part I):

Is this enough for you? Does your instinct tell you to ask her out and you do it? Are you the type who can't refuse to turn a hot girl down? What if she isn't hot? Do you still take that instinct? If so then you sir should stop here. The rest you can read, but this is how most romantic or sexual relationships start between male and females. This is the "typical" method.
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If you're still reading then I guess this doesn't bore you? Maybe you're curious? Perhaps I'm amusing and make you laugh? Or maybe you don't do decision one? That takes me to this.

Time/Desperation/Panic Mode:


(Again sorry for the water mark)

So now she's freaking out. She desires you. She wants you. She NEEDS you. At least her mind is telling her that.

Decision (Part II):

Now it comes down to the decision. Do you take her out her misery? End her thirst? Relieve her desperation? I typically go by a few things here.

-Appearance
-My libido
-Her presence

I'll explain those in update.

I had a girl in one of my classes last year that I had a huge crush on. I'm SUPER shy and she is shy too I think. She sat next to me and seemed to look in my direction a lot but not always at me. Sometimes I'd see her looking at me but just occasionally. Our teacher was hilarious and when the class laughed she would look at me while laughing them turn after I made eye contact. She also would kinda perk up when I was called on in class. Some days though I'm pretty sure she didn't look at all. Someday id be sure she likes me others I'd be sure she doesn't. It was an on off thing. But we never talked. I don't have a class with her this year :( and I want a chance to talk to her still. Oh and when I'd catch her looking multiple times in a day she would st turn her body completely to the left, literally facing the wall. Does that mean she didn't want to give me the wrong message? I seldom saw her in the halls and when I did she would NEVER look at me. Today I finally saw her for like the first time this school year in the halls and she looked at me while walking with her friend but only looked when I got really close. She was laughing with her friend like the whole time and I know they say that's a good sign to show their fun side or whatever but I don't think she saw me until I was close. And she didn't have a smile when looking at me but she'd never looked at me in the halls before. Like I said I've gotten mixed signs I think. Thoughts?

Ok. I had a crush on this girl (my friend’s sister) for a little while now and I haven't really told anyone.. yet, but I don't know the best way to let my feelings or her be known.

Every time I'm around her we make pretty intense but awesome eye contact and most body language to express ourselves. Sometimes she will get very close as we walk past each other and I just try to bump up against her just a bit to let her know what I’m thinking.

I'm pretty sure she has figured it out but it keeps happening so I guess that’s a good sign ;)

However one problem is creating a conversation with her when no one else is around! I have no idea what to say, and sometimes I stand next to her with a blank mind and laugh about it just because I’m just happy to be next to her. I definitely need to find a way to open up and to start getting to know each other but I have no idea how!

Am I crazy or does she like me too if these signs keep happening?