Search Results: mess up a relationship

Am I truly friend zoned following year of on off dating and talking or is there more to this?

I’ve known a guy a year and was going well, he didn’t want labels and I was cool with it. I thought he didn’t like me much so I loaded a dating app and saw him on it. I mentioned it and he went off saying he can’t do this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Breakup or take a break?

My boyfriend cheated on me with a friend of his. He got drunk at a party and gave into his temptations and made out with her. We sat down and talked and after so many years of being together, we were able to open up and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you know if someone relationship is falling apart?

This is a terrible thing to ask but I don't want to be in this position again. I thought someone's relationship was falling apart because the other party was kind of flirting and they don't seem to be close on social...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Is money the only reason my father won't divorce my toxic mother?

Even though my mom is a loving mother to me, she screwed up other people's lives badly. She messed with my relationship too (treated my boyfriend horrible) and even falsely accused my father of cheating; yet openly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He's not in an okay place right now and can't be sexual with people without it messing with his mind, is it the case or does he want to get rid of me?

First time the guy friend that I've been in love with and I fucked was amazing and he stayed the night and we slept next to each other. We had the talk of us just being friends who did the nasty and how he's not ready for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men cheat with unattractive women?

My boyfriend had this 2 month online relationship with a drop out, unemployed, drug addict with zero aspirations aside from coke, MDMA, and weed. She’s also a year younger than me but looked so much older and uglier...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I wasn’t a challenge to him?

Soo this guy I was inlove with I wanted to be with him he use to tell me this and tht and he’ll do one thing and do the other like he told me he don’t want a relationship but come to find out he goes and be with another...

Chandra20

Xper 5 Age: 25

Is there anything I can do to help my ex boyfriend without hurting myself?

Even though we had a complicated story that led to the downfall of the relationship, I feel like only I can understand our relationship because of him having signs of some kind of mental illness. He was high functioning,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can l get a guy to stop liking me when l don't feel the same?

So recently my best friend asked me for some advice on how she can get this guy to stop liking her, cause like she ain't feeling for this dude, and this dude is like her cuz best friend and like her cuz has a thing for...

Yourgu

Xper 2 Age: 20

If your significant other went away for the day would you check in with them?

My boyfriend and I haven’t been on the Today I went to another state to celebrate my friends birthday I told him when I landed at 9am and he looked at it and hasn’t responded at all today I sent him something around...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How should I feel about this?

I did my first piano performance and my dad chose food over me. He had the whole time to prepare something to eat but he chose to do it when it was time for me to perform. And he had the audacity to ask me how it went and...

Sweetener_

Xper 7 Age: 21

How can I make my girlfriend trust me?

My girlfriend is scared of loosing me I been with her for 2 years I don't hardly go out or go anywhere except with her also we live together so there's no way I cheat on her. I accidentally got her pregnant she's pissed...

Rockstar1984

Xper 2 Age: 33

Did I miss the dating window?

I was pretty overweight through my late teens and early twenties. This, plus being isolated, and being very shy made dating for me basically impossible. I didn't really have a date till my late 20s and first couple of...

Rocknerd2

Xper 5 Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

How do I cure myself of Relationship PTSD?

I’ve been cheated on multiple times, lied to and on. I even caught an STI which really messed me up And this was two years ago+. They say time heals but I’ve only seen to digress since. I’ve recently blocked someone that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do I do about my boyfriend’s ex?

After hanging out with my boyfriend we went back to his place. On the car ride back, his ex girl friend called him and he ignored it. Then we got back to his place and we did the deed. He then went to his car and gave his...

PiinkFalls

Xper 4 Age: 26

If someone only apologized because they ran out of options how should you handle it?

I found it highly insulting that my ex returned to apologize to me only after his relationship with a new girl failed. A few years ago, after making claims that he wanted to commit seriously during a hard time in my life,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why one minute my ex says to be smart about dating if I decide to but the next minute saying he’ll mess up my relationship?

He’s the father of my child (currently 4 months pregnant, happened after getting back in contact) but we’ve been broken off relationship wise for a long while and dated for about 5 years prior. I’ve accepted everything...

Myamay1377

Xper 4 Age: 26