How can I make my girlfriend trust me?

[Rockstar1984]

My girlfriend is scared of loosing me I been with her for 2 years I don't hardly go out or go anywhere except with her also we live together so there's no way I cheat on her. I accidentally got her pregnant she's pissed off at me she doesn't want kids to ruin our relationship. She recently found out about what happened to one of her friends kids her dad was cheating on her mom apparently he had a girlfriend he was engaged to when she was just 2 years old she's now 5 she hardly ever sees him. Her cousin has 3 kids by 3 different guys only one of them sees their dad the other 2 live with their grandmother. Also she watches Teen Mom it kind of traumatized her she has a son from a previous marriage but his dad died a few years ago he just turned 10 she was only 18 he was 15 when they had him I'm surprised they stayed together as long as they did they were together 10 years married for 6. Her friend has a son whose around his age his mom put him up for adoption when he was 8 for whatever reason now he's her cousin because her uncle adopted him he's 12 years old now she had another son with her ex boyfriend now she has a daughter with another guy. Even her favorite rock star messed up his kids life he got his band mates girlfriend pregnant when they were only 21 he didn't see him again until he was 40 she got really upset over that he seems like such a nice guy who wouldn't hurt anyone especially his own kid. With all the drama with kids these days she's not sure she can trust me. How can I make her trust me?

[btbc92]

You can't make anybody trust you. This is why you don't have sex before marriage she has every right to be scared. This is due to Signature. You people don't take any of this seriously. Hope you need to repent of your sins and really turned to Jesus for this. All you two are doing is just repeating the same cycle. Trust is don't want to get you with so far but if you don't repent from me since you're not going to cause more problems. You already got a pregnant once, and therefore you having sex is not about to think when you chose to have sex. You should know that when you have said you run the risk of getting someone pregnant. You all the way you wouldn't have trust from her unless you're prepared to deal with her until death do your part. Otherwise don't guarantee anything you know you but your stuff you don't want to do. That's why I'm glad I have my virginity and stayed single. Needs to watch Teen Mom to educate herself because apparently y'all are not educating yourself for the dealings of the world but you choose to act like the world.

[btbc92]

Kids are not the problem. Your sexual choices and you choosing not to do right by each other is. Call Dwight. You want to have the fun but I don't want the responsibility? That's between both of you and her now. Just scared of losing you because again she don't want to make the same mistake as she already made a mistake. You're making it along with her. Children should not have to be a mistake of someone else's decision, and birth control and condoms are not going to save you from this. This is why God has said that sucks belongs in a marriage only. PERIOD. And you both are learning the hard way. She decides that she wants to trust you. You decide if you want to continue to make these mistakes. Both of you going to have to come clean towards each other and figure out what you're going to do going forward. Neither you going to have any choice now. It is no longer about yourselves anymore. But whether or not you're going to stick around for each other. She needs to get it together. You need to get it together. It's a choice and it's life. And it's as simple as that. The both of you decide whether or not you want to make it any more complicated or difficult than it already is.