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I’m not asking advice , just asking for fun. The way I see it, if both people are relaxed about it see it as a learning experience , and there is legal protection so no one can get screwed financially, I don’t see the harm. Obviously if you’ve been dreaming of a wedding and eternity then this would be very negative. But in itself its essentially like dating but without the ambiguity.

>>>Are we dating or seeing each other or in a casual relationship exclusive or exclusive but casual 🙄🙄🙄

Lolol

I’d rather just elope then get it annulled. That’s more fun and in a way , it’s time consuming.

Whereas for me... I’d never intended marriage so It’s easy for me to look at it differently. I Totally get this idea would be horrific to some. And sorry if I offended anyone. Not my intention at all. Just curious to ask 😊

Oh and obviously with someone you care for and can see marrying.. I wouldn’t do it with a stranger.

Imagine if this were more common it would totally neutralize the hysteria over the “crazy person bc they thought of marriage early on.”.. So what.🤷‍♀️ Get married —then see how you like it. No need to freak out over things you plan on doing anyhow.

Anyhow think it over , let me know what you think. ✨✨✨

First off my boyfriend is not the type to flirt or mess on with other girls and my best mate isn't either. However it's been a couple of months after me and my boyfriend got together that my best mate has been interested in what we do as a couple. Which obviously isn't a bad thing but the thing is whatever she tells or asks me comes off in a way that she doesn't want me and my boyfriend to continue our relationship.
At first she would tell me what a 'terrible gf' I am because I would apparently not 'spend enough time with him' and that I should 'make more of an effort with him'. So I take this advice and start spending more time with him however today she tells me that I am 'too clingy', that 'he is bound to break up with me', and that 'he's not interested' in me. Straight after telling me he wasn't interested in me she then went on to say that she was going to message my boyfriend for some weird reason because her and my boyfriend are 'really close friends' which is ridiculous because he barely talks to her.
Also whenever she asks about what dates we go on she always tells me that 'it's cringe' and has also told me before that I have changed to become 'sensitive' since dating my boyfriend and that it is a negative effect on me?
I don't understand her logic but just want to know some opinions based on this? She has though before herself told me that someone had asked her whether she had a crush on my boyfriend and that she went no and wouldn't do that to me.