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Once upon a time I felt guilty about “hook ups” in my late teens and early 20s. Back then I actually had a few girls hop on me. I would follow up with them later to just hang out, just to be “nice”. Other guys would say “wtf you doing? You got your half”. Surprisingly there are some women who use men for sex. It’s much less insulting on male side when this happens. It does leave a bit of a hollow feeling though.

I also acted chivalrous and “took things slow” with the girls I really liked. That got me friendzoned 100% of the time. Every single time.

I’m my late 20s I just started banging everything in site. I have had three relationships in last 8 years. (From 8 months to a year long). Every single one these relationships we had sex within the first 3 dates.

When it comes down to it I WANT to take things slow and get to know a woman for who she is before sex. I could even wait to marriage for the right woman. But does that kind of woman only exist in the strict religious sectors? I’m spiritual myself but I’ve never found a woman I was crazy about in church. Please no rude atheist remarks to that observation. thanks.

But again I’m I guaranteed to get friend zoned EVERY time I try to take things slow? Nothing worse than putting in all that effort and anticipation just to be ditched for being too chivalrous and boring.

My girlfriend is a college sophomore. When I first saw her, I'd been nothing but on the game with girls. I'd usually just acted like their looks didn't faze me, it was easy. I'd made fun of guys who catered to chicks, did a lot of bragging... all of that. When I first saw her, I could tell she was thick ASF, chunky. She's brunette, 5'5, maybe 180. She was sorta standing sideways to me and I tried SO F'N HARD to ignore looking down at her booty and legs, but I couldn't against her! She had on green leggings, and I finally gave up and my eyes landed on her big booty, then legs, and my mouth fell fast😮😮😮😮😮😮! When I looked up, she was looking at me, and turned to face me. I was trying to think of a way to distract her, but she stared at me and kept her face totally straight. I couldn't get through it and my whole cocky act just sunk. I was😩😩😩. We've been together 3 mos now. I spoil her and all that, but about 2 weeks ago she told me she knew I had been a total playboy before, so what made me give it up? I admitted to her it was because she's too thick, so my main move of trying to be cool didn't work, since she had on those green leggings and my mouth dropped. Plus her straight face was like a cement wall, so I couldn't get through it at all. She was all, "hmm, ok." Since then though, she's worn those green leggings like 3 days, and black ones like every other day, and every time she goes by, she looks at me with the straight face. She'll say stuff now like, "hmm, I gained 2 lbs, just checked my weight." It's KILLING my ego, but I haven't told her! It keeps reminding me of how cocky I acted before, and how I ended up against her that first day. Should I approach her about it, and if so, what should I say, or not at all? Helpppp!😫