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Why do I keep attracting guys that only want sex!?!

I am in my early 30's and for some reason I only attract guys that want me for sex. I have guys be really sweet to me act like they are genuinely interested and then they turn out to be jerks that only want me for sex....
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None of my dates worked out, should I consider seeing a therapist?

I went on a lot of dates this summer and none of them made it to the next level, and the ones that did kind of went well, I didn't feel a mutual connection. The guys that I was attracted too were jerks/dogs/playas, or...
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How do you deal with dating and not get discouraged?

i want someone from my own religion and it is not so easy to meet so I am on internet sites .i am an attractive girl and lately it seems like I just get jerks who like my looks and body and not a relationship. it makes...
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If my friends think a guy is a jerk should I listen to their opinion?

I met this new guy when I was with my friends. He was showing clear interest in me but both friends think he is a jerk and self centered. I have a habit of liking jerks and dating guys who do not respect me as much as I...
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Serious Question: Should we really be ashamed of being shallow?

Please read this entire thing before typing a knee jerk response. I am not trying to say being shallow is a good thing. As a society tend to actively put down others who actively seek mates that fit superficial...
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Why would he lead me on and then bail on me?

I'm very inexperienced in dating. I have ever even kissed I'm 23. And the last date I had about a week ago the guy was a total jerk. Msged me for 3 weeks but then after he saw me in person he talked for about 45 min a...
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I don't have a boyfriend, I am depressed, help?

I feel lonely, I broke up with my ex 4 months ago and I am single. i meet boys very often, and they like me but they are not my type, I am not attracted to them. I tried also online dating but with every guy something...
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Are girls attracted to men like their dads?

do you think this is true? and is this in looks, personality, or both? I am just noticing that a lot of my friends in serious relationships are with guys who have some similarities to their dads! this scares me because I...
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Girls: why do we always fall for the A holes? why do we let them do us dirty?

just curious, most ladies gets attracted to those jerk ones.. why is it that we can't see those who are actually making an effort to be with us? and also is there anyone out there that's picky like me?
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If a guy liked a girl romantically, wouldn't he respect her by not rushing into

having sex or doing anything sexual right away after meeting or seeing her(a.k.a. dating her for a while) and/or not pressuring her into doing anything sexual that she is not ready for? Or would he be more willing/vocal...
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Is it possible for girls who only attract players/jerks to appreciate a nice guy more?

In other words, if a girl is always approached by the "wrong" type of guys, can it be in a nice guy's favor? Of course, he isn't needy or super insecure at all. To sum it up I'm not referring to that typical needy, wussy,...
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Conflicting Understandings of the Notion that Nice Guys Finish Last

A very common question on this forum focuses on the statement "nice guys finish last". There are also questions around the related issue that I paraphrase as "jerks finish first". What surprises me the most about these...
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Ready to make the change. guys please help.

So I am what you would call a nice guy. treat people well try to help out when I can and all that sh*t blah blah blah. The change I want to make is from being a nice guy to being a jerk. being a nice guy hardly ever got...
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Do you belive in astrology and astrology compatibilty?

Im a virgo and virgos are supoosedly clean and tidy, prudish, orderly and organised, hard working and pretty much what I would think of as boring. the parts that I do find true is that I know for a fact I can be very...
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My best friend has a new boyfriend and I'm not happy for her.

She's 21, and she's never had a boyfriend before. Well, recently she's met this guy who she really likes, and she's been spending a lot of time with him and stuff. They're basically dating now. I've never really...
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Do you believe that hot/gorgeous girls often attract jerks who treat them like sh*t?

I asked this based on what I have seen now.I have a friend in college who is super hot and beautiful.She often get hit on by many guys either through the dating site or real life.My friends and I used to envy her until...
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Could I be unlucky in love?

I had my first "boyfriend" when I was in middle school and ever since then I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I never seem to attract good guys. At first, the guys I date seem nice and then they turn out to be jerks...
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Not sure about my engagement to my fiance, and advice

I'm in a difficult situation and a bit fed up at the moment. my frustration stems from financial problems. I shall start with the details: my partner is in a significant amount of debt from student loans and not in the...
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Why do people take the piss out of me?

I'm just constantly taken the piss out of, if it's not from girls it's from guys, the girls just act majorly bitchy and compeitive like my existence is a threat to them and then guys... they act like complete jerks to me,...
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Do I only like jerks? Should I try to make myself like the nice guy?

I tend to end up dating jerks and I do not know why. They tend to start out as being nice and acting like they are exactly what I want and then they show how they really are after about a year or a little less. I have...
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