Why do people take the piss out of me?

[Anonymous]

I'm just constantly taken the piss out of, if it's not from girls it's from guys, the girls just act majorly bitchy and compeitive like my existence is a threat to them and then guys... they act like complete jerks to me, even guys who clam to be "nice guys", they pick on my weight, they try to make me something I'm not and they never try to understand me and they pretend to be the type of guy I'm attracted to on purpose just to try and hurt me just for attention, I'm sick of it, it's the goody-two-shoes "nice guys" that do it too not just idiots. People constantly disrespect me and treat me like my existence is just a contamination to the earth, I have no friends because everybody judges me, the only person who doesn't is my friend richy, that's it, the rest they all have the intent to hurt me and treat me like scum just because I don't do what the crowed does, just because I don't hang out at bars or dress like celebrities to try and draw atttention to myself and just because I don't care what everyone else thinks about me, the only way people respond is pushing and pushing me to make me throw myself off a cliff, they would really like that I know, I just don't know why nearly everybody takes the piss out of me, they don't care who I really am inside or about getting past the differences we have.

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I want answers that doesn't say I should care what people think, thank you, if you can't accept me who I am and all your thinking about is what I should change about myself then your kidding yourselves, I will not change for you or anyone, your already judging me and you don't even know me.

[Daph81]

Let me tell you something: PEOPLE ALWAYS JUDGE YOU. They might not show that they do, but they always do. You'll just have to accept that and stop caring, because if you care about what other people's opinions about you, you're going to jump off a cliff. What matters is how they behave towards you. Because girl, even your "friends" will judge you, they just accept you and like you.

I was in your position once, where it seems like everybody is really driving me nuts. Then I stopped caring about other people's opinions and snarky comments. I'll just think, "What the hell does he/she know? Pah, she/he's not worth my precious time and emotions. People like them probably are totally insecure themselves, so they're just trying to make themselves feel better by putting other people down. What a loser." It definitely went uphill from there. There might still be some things that push my buttons, but it's not all the time. I learned to care less and just be myself without caring about other people's opinions, because I realized that that's what everyone is doing anyway. Which was why you see lots of jerks and bitches: they are just being themselves and not care what others think of them.

Just don't become a bitch yourself.

[Anonymous]

Don't worry, girls will always be that way. I was never one to be friends with girls anyways, so I subsided hanging with guys. What I've learned from my guy friends is that they are mostly just looking for a good time. If you come off as a nice girl, its basically the first couple of conversations that determine how they will feel about you and treat you. It also comes down to just the way you come off to people, if you come off a certain way to guys, they can lose interest, respect, and any type of potential for relationships. How do you generally act when you do go out, or when you talk to any of the people you talk to. If you come off saying how you want people to like you for you and all these stuff about yourself, it is a turn off, and guys generally don't want to talk to someone that complains a lot. Maybe a reason why they pick on your weight is because they see you as an easy target, if you are making yourself already vulnerable, but they are just already turned off.

[Anonymous]

Girls? Girls hate each other. So that's just natural, that other girls will pick on you.

Guys? Guys are taught by players or brutal experience that picking on girls and teasing/mocking/being an a**hole sometimes is good game, and that if you're flat out kind and nice to a girl, about 98% chance she will friend zone you.

And third, who cares "who you are inside"? Does it really matter, to anyone aside from your family or friends who grow to truly like you? Not really. Life's short. People stereotype based on appearances and actions, it's a lot faster and usually works pretty well. It's like how, if you're a fatty, people will assume you're a slob, and if you're drop-dead gorgeous, people will assume you're bitchy. Why? It's backed up by good odds it's true.

There you go.

[Asker]

Sorry but this concept is a crap one when I'm a girl that does not respond to people treating me like sh*t to get atention, right from the start all they do is give off the wrong impression and me, I just take it as them just being a d*** and they are being one and nothing more. I told you I don't care how I'm seen and this one paragraph is practicly saying I should care, well... I don't because EVERYTHING is wrong with all of it. Being an a**hole is never good game with me nor with other girls.

[Asker]

This isn't just them doing it to tease me though they bully me, they act shallow and big headed, egotistic, most guys can't even be themselves when they around their friends any more and yes actually it DOES matter who I am inside, if you really think it doesn't matter like most then you need to think re-think your game too, not all of us are the same and people treat me like I'm the same but they have no clue I've lived with an a**hole all my life in form of my brother, don't want another one.

[Anonymous]

One thing I have learnt in my life, is that people are ****s. The majority of them you cannot trust fully and cannot rely on, but every now and then, you find a few people who are worth your time and you can let in.

People will always judge you unfairly, as they did to me. But know that people come and go. None of these jerks and bitches will stay in your life, do not give them any reaction from what they do, as that's what they want.

If your happy how you are, then they don't mean sh*t. Be yourself and keep fighting this struggle which is life. I'm not gonna lie, you will have a lot of downs, but when the good times come, you'd be glad that you kept going.

There are people out there who would like you for how you are.

-M.

[Asker]

I dunno... I'm kinda giving up hope there is anyone who wouldn't judge me, even my own family judge me especially my mum, my dads alright but he can be quite scrappy with me at times when I try to do things my own way just because I don't do things his way (even when he's completely wrong). Human emotions are a bitch though, I wish I could just turn them off and not feel anything because I feel so empty and alone and people use that against others because they know

[Asker]

the one thing people hate the most is being alone with their own thoughts all the time, I wish I lived in a world where people didn't use things against you and worked with you but people are so hard headed and stubborn these days when it comes to what they want, I can see why because of the same reasons (people trying to tell them what to do), but they still do what people say anything by dressing how they want them to, they just don't like it that I refuse to compromise who I am for them.

[Jack00700]

Don't worry about others, just be happy with yourself. You can't stop people from thinking negatively towards you as its their choice. It sounds like you have a serious case of bullying going on is it at school? You need to speak to someone about it incase it gets worse.

[Asker]

I'm at college but I always got bullied in high school for my weight too, it's not my fault I find it so hard to lose weight or keep it off it's in my family genes plus I don't have the money to pay a personal trainer to help me, there is only so far I can take it with myself till it gets too hard, I need someone there to push me harder when I can't, they treat it like I just make up excuses when I don't. Just people constantly bully me and act competitive, they try to get me to do the same.

[Asker]

Trying to find a place where people don't act in this silly competitive behavior is too hard, I don't want to compromise with them ether because if I started acting like them I'm not any better, I want to do so much with my life but they know if I don't act like them I will never have anyone in my life, they know life is boring when you have nobody to share it with.

[Jack00700]

Tell you something I've been 'FAT' before and it was very tough to loose weight, but I set a goal say 3-6 months, 2 pounds each week, if you have no goal you don't know where to finish, if I could loose weight so can you, and guess what contrary to what people might tell you it's bad and you should do something about it. Anyways what I wanted to really say is wouldn't it be sweet sweet revenge if you showed these people what you look by loosing weight? Prove them wrong :D hope you get the msg

[Asker]

Thing is I don't know if I should just carry on losing weight because it seems when I was much heavier nobody wanted to pay attention to me, soon as I lost weight even guys started liking me, what was wrong with who I was before?, the thought if that just makes me disgusted in people when they couldn't accept me for who I am then, all people care about is how they are seen with me around.

[Jack00700]

I hear what your saying babe, but you don't me to tell you how society views on people who are different, unfortunate.unatly fat people is in that category. No one can stop you from being healthy and if will be good for you also and you will feel good about yourself. There are very shallow people out there but there are also some decent people too. You just haven't met them yet I promise you that. Do what's good for yourself ignore the idiots.

[Paris13]

Online or Offline, Bullying is the In thing Today. Ignore them or Make it worse for yourself. xx

[Anonymous]

why not pump piss inside of you? with like a turkey baster

[Paris13]

lol From this Master. xx

[Opinion Owner]

heh you like that idea?
or just found it funny lol

[Paris13]

lol!!! Do I know you, MS. Pink? xx