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I'm not in love, I'm simply curious. We don't even talk to each other anymore.
Basically, I own multiple houses that I inherited from my dad. I had a long distance friendship with a man, he used to text me every single day, he knew about my houses, one day he said: ''I'd like to pay you the rent just to live in your city and have you around every day.''
He never said he was in love with me, he always said he was just a friend. He never tried to hide the fact that he was physically attracted to me, he even said ''You'd be the best sex of my life'' and he used to give me dozens of different compliments. Some of the compliments he gave me: beautiful, charismatic, magnetic, intelligent, strong.
He used to say this: ''I really want to fuck you, but I'm happy to talk to you and have a connection with you, I genuinely value our friendship.''
He never offered a romantic relationship. But I don't know what would've happened if I had asked for more, I wasn't in love with him and I didn't want to play with his feelings just to find out what was going on.
Was he hiding his feelings? Or was he really just a friend who desired me physically in an intense way? I'm clueless.
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What sort of alarm switch 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨 do you think "love" is?
You think there's something deeper to romance than just physical and personal attraction? You're not gonna experience more oxytocin that that at any point in your life. Maybe with the exception of bearing children. ใ ค
So, you're in love with every woman you find attractive?
Come on, it's not that simple.
There's no such thing as "attractive" in my mind. There's only "normal", "repulsive", and "I'm drooling" which isn't even about looks for me, anyone who isn't repulsive can make me drool with their personality. Being physically attractive is normal, most people have the capacity to be attractive if they take care of their health and hygiene.
So you either experience intense attraction or you don't feel anyhting at all?
I find women "fuckable" all the time, and i call it normal. If i wanted to, i can look at almost any woman's ass and willingly get an erection. It will cause a surge of neurochemicals that feel like drugs. But i don't do that. So it never gets to dopamine or erections.
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There's nothing in here indicating that he had any feelings or intentions of anything serious. Many guys throw compliments freely around at everything with 2 legs and a pair of boobs. Unless you actually know the guy and have met him, you don't know if those words had any real meaning or value. In the end, actions are what really matters and the reason why you stopped talking will probably tell you a lot more about him than any of those compliments.
Well, that can be said when men compliment an average looking girl like you, I
He used to text me every day for years and he couldn't even accept being ignored for two days, and he actually wanted to meet me
I'm only saying that I don't understand whether it was just a friendship + physical attraction or something more.
A 50+ year old man is obviously going to be genuinely interested in a woman who is in her 20's and has the proportions of a Victoria's Secret model.
Why so offended ๐
I apologize, I didn't want to say ''average looking women like you'', it was an incomplete sentence, I pressed Send accidentally, and unfortunately, GaG doesn't let users modify or delete comments.
I even left an ''I'' at the end of that sentence, the comment was unfinished.
Being in love with someone takes more than just texts over the phone , it takes both people to choose each other , for love to even start growing between the both of you , so he wasnโt in love with you , he was just infatuated with you , , and was hoping you were into him the same way he was into you , so since you werenโt into him, then there was no love at all , he just loved the thought of being with you
There is no indication in what shared here that makes me think he was in love. Seems like he was just attracted to you and flirting. Online and reality are two different things anyway, people say anything online.
We met.
We knew each other in real life, I didn't say it was just an online thing, but we were in different cities, that's why I called it long distance friendship.
It's impossible to know for sure how he was feeling, but I get the impression he was hoping you would be his friend with benefits, because he never said he loved you.
Love is something else; if he were in love with you, he would even travel from Como to Milan for your sake thatโs just an example.
Did he ever take you on any romantic dates?