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I feel like I’m not likeable. I have no friends. I was bullied in school. And no guy was ever really in my life from a romantic standpoint. I’m 23 and no guy of my preference has ever showed interest in me. I’m told I’m attractive, by men online and a few people in person. However, guys don’t talk or approach me in person and the ones that do are either creepers, players or objectively unattractive. I was heavier growing up and slimmer now, but I’d still consider myself to be on the thick side. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I’m starting to believe I’m not the kind of girl a guy would like to pursue.

I guess id call a late bloomer someone whos closer to their 20s before they finish growing and become social enough to date and get their first kiss and lose their virginity. Late bloomers are typically awkward when theyre teenagers, maybe even kinda butterfaced or out of shape, but when early 20s come around they turn out really pretty and find their own style. Like girls who finally get fheir period when theyre 18 or guys who get a final growth and end up 6 feet tall when they were short all through highschool.

On the other hand you got early bloomers (like me😊) who develope really early in life. Girls who get their periods when they're like 10 years old and wear a C cup in 8th grade, highschool guys who have beards and thick abs. They tend to be the most socialized one in the class and lose their virginity sooner.

Ultimately how you end up as an adult is mostly on you, but some people get a kickstart in that direction sooner than others. So which do you think you are? What do you think about being early vs late in the growing up process?