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So I've had a friend for about 5 years. we've had our differences, usually we work it out.

My "friend" has been living a train wreck of a life that she's kinda forced on herself.
I usually set aside the fact that I feel like she's made a bad decision and try to help her through it.

But for starters, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend when I was 19, three months into our relationship. We've now been together for 4 years and we JUST got engaged this past weekend.
When I told this friend that I'd had sex (she'd never done it before either), she got a little "cold". All she said was is "I just don't understand why it couldn't wait for marriage." And essentially kinda made me feel bad for not waiting.
I ignored her for a few weeks, then she messaged me about HER boyfriend was cheating on her pretty blatantly. He'd go WEEKS without even sending her a TEXT. Nothing at all. And then randomly send her pictures of some half naked woman. Just to hurt said friend. So I felt bad for her, tried to talk to her, and I told her she needed out of that relationship. I tried to put it delicately, since she was "so in love." And she then SHE stopped talking to me.
Fast forward like 2 weeks and she tells me she had sex with him so he would cheat. (He didn't stop.) Well now 3 years later, I'm engaged, have a great job, just living my best life really.
3 years later for her is, she has had a baby with her cheater boyfriend. Not married or engaged, neither of them has a job, they don't even live together. Still with their parents.

When I told her I was engaged though she just couldn't be happy. Her exact words were "well me and John could be married by now, but there's just no point since we knows left we love each other".
So admittedly I snapped and replied "well that's so great that you changed your mind after you shamed me for having sex then turned around and had a baby with a guy you don't even live with."
She Left me on read and honestly I have nothing to say to her. AITA?

I've been talking to this guy for less than a month.. in the beginning he was somewhat pushy to meet me. We tried meeting but something got in the way of not meeting up. He has told me things like:
He says he really likes me
Compliments me a lot
Tells me he wants me/earning for me
Tells me he really wants to meet me and says he can but can't wait to meet me.
He says that he doesn't wanna lose me /the potential of meeting me, meaning if we haven't met for a few months that he's worried he will lose interest.
He has told his friend about me.
All he wants is to meet up and see how things go. He usually prefers meeting up right away.
He genuinely asked me questions and seems like a down to earth guy.
he's still very goofy and laughing with me but i find the more we talk he seems very calm. he's very honest with me and seems to communicate well. Things do get sexual and he has said he wants to have sex with me but he also wants all the other things that come with a relationship. Cuddling etc.
He asks me genuine questions about myself and what I've been up too during the day