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So my boyfriend has cheated on my in the beginning of our relationship. He was in another relationship and had sex with her. He also was asking other girls to be his girlfriend and made out with another girl while dating me. He had phone sex. I caught him and now he is changing his behavior. He went to therapy and gave me access to his accounts. The thing that worries me is now he isn’t putting any effort in the relationship. He won’t call me iniate any conversations first. Won’t fly out to see me because he’s saying he’s broke and doesn’t have the money. He doesn’t iniate anything sexual and he always has an excuse. He said he’s withdrawing because of how much I mistrust him. He did this to his ex girlfriend too. He said he did to her because he didn’t care and that he’s doing it to me because I’m mistreating him and making him feel like I’m going to abandon him. Should I trust by now or am I giving good reasons not to trust him?

So my boyfriend has cheated on me in the beginning of the relationship. He was in a whole other relationship and had sex with her. I found he made out with another girl too. Was sexting other girls. He has changed and went to therapy and let’s me have access to his online accounts now. He cheated over a year ago. No I notice he’s starting to put less effort into the relationship. Doesn’t come up with stuff to talk about doesn’t iniate sex and puts what I need off till last minute saying oh you think I’m using you. He canceled the flight to come up to pa for his dads trial because it got moved and now he isn’t coming to see me and he said oh I don’t have the money rn. He has the mentality of thinking I’m going to abandon him because his ex’s did. Now he’s on a Grand Canyon trip with no service and hasn’t even tried to make an effort to contact me by goikg to the town that’s close by. He’s going to be there for 3 days with his coworkers and coworker girls surrounded by him. I don’t feel comfortable with this. Do I have a right too or am I overreacting?