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Search Results: how to know if he just wants a hook up
What should you do when your crush wants to hook up but you have a girlfriend?
I know cheating is wrong so I shouldn’t do it but actually have been dying to hook up with her but what should I say to her? I can’t just reject her outright but I need to let her know I can’t right now
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean if I was sexting a guy and he said he wanted me to tell him I love him during sex?
We never got the chance to hook up yet but we often sext, day, night, middle of the day in this case it was bright daylight and he sexted me saying he wanted me to tell him I love him during the deed. I was taken back, re...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I just block my friend now since we’re older and I’m tired of games?
This guy that I’ve known since college we liked each other but didn’t date we always dated other people. Long story short he got engaged then it ended we hooked up I went my separate way (moved to another state) we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he change his mind so quickly?
I met this guy on Tinder. We started texting over the summer, but I ended up not responding because I was super busy. In August, he added me on Snapchat to get my attention (after I didn't respond to his double text). I...
julia5991
Xper 2 Age: 30 My tinder date says she’s not looking for a relationship right now (over text) a few days after we had casual sex. What next?
After we hooked up, I refrained from texting her as I didn’t want to come on too strong. I was hesitant but I reached out to her a couple days later saying it would be nice to see her again. She messaged back saying “I...
superchicken21
Xper 2 Age: 28 Do women think that because men want to fuck them that they are attractive?
I’m asking because I think you do and it would explain why so many women think they’re more attractive than they actually are ( i know a lot of your friends hype you up too) Women only sleep with men they are...
TsAubreyKate
Xper 6 Age: 27 Guys, What does this mean for the guy? What does this mean for him and I?
This guy that I work with, let's name him John. [I do not want to hear anything about not mixing pleasure and business, so move on.] Sorry for the long post, just want to give as much as I know. John just got out of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Keeping my dating life a secret to my family and friends?
I'm 23 years old, I've never dated or had sex, and I'm thinking about dating soon. But I want to keep my dating a secret. My family and friends are good and I love them, but if they knew that I was dating, they would...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do I do after I drunkenly hook up with one of my best guy friends?
I’ve told him in the past that I don’t think it would be good for me emotionally becayse I catch feelings and both him and I know he isn’t a good guy to girls. I would always flirt for the chase knowing he could do what...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I go about finding a genuine 2nd and 3rd wife (no hook up)?
I’m very happily married to one of the most wonderful women on this earth. She and I (her even more so than I) want to add 2-4 wives (married) over time. We are not looking for perverted hook-ups and group stuff! We are...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it considered a red flag if a guy you barely know asks to sleep with you but claims to want a serious relationship?
Every time I meet a guy and exchange numbers with him, they never ask me out and we'll be talking for a few weeks but as soon as they want a serious relationship and "get to know me" is when I suddenly hear how much of an...
Cherrylicious
Yoda Age: 35 He texts to argue with me?
Known a guy for 4 months. Hooked up once in beginning. He wanted to keep hooking up but I was legitimately never available when he asked. I also am irritated because when he texts me or face times me he is out right rude...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) America's Common Case of Kyle Rittenhouse
I expected Kyle Rittenhouse to be found not guilty. In the days leading up to the verdict, I followed the details closely enough and already came to my own conclusion that he was going to be let off. It was already set up...
I really enjoy spending time with this girl, but am I pretty much the hook up buddy?
Long story short, I met this woman at a friend's birthday celebration at a bar. We were very into each other, she came back to my place and we hooked up. The morning after we took a shower together, and I ordered her a...
Anonymous
(30-35) The guy I was hooking up with started wanting to hang out more and hook up less.. what is going on?
I (21f) am talking to Cam (23m) for about a month. We have a past from high school but we never did anything other than hang out a lot. He was known to be a player so I made it a big deal to not mess around with him...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to keep him from getting back with his ex?
Okay so in a previous question I talked about a guy who we all agreed on was into me & we hooked up. We are still talking but the consensus is we don't wanna jump into anything right away because he's fresh out of a...
SammieUnicorn369
Xper 4 Age: 30 My crush said he doesn’t cuddle or kiss so why does he do both to me?
Back story: my ex boyfriend said he hated kissing and found it disgusting. He only did pecks cuz he felt obligated to kiss his hook ups out of respect and that’s how we started. Eventually overtime he got comfortable...
Ewyourselfie
Xper 3 Age: 26 Was he being jealous?
I know this guy who works at a store as a cashier we met years ago. Whenever I see him we talk. And we hooked up and had sex once. Recently I started talking to another guy about Bitcoin who works there and he heard me...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guy friend sending me mixed messages, does he just want sex or something more?
I'll keep this as short as I can. My guy best friend that iv always had a spark with is sending me mixed messages. Recently we have shared a bed (while on a college trip one weekend and at a friend's house two...
Mary_M
Xper 3 Age: 29 Do you think the dating style and values were better back in the day compared to the modern days now?
I wanna say yes because communication was more efficent, people actually made the effort& actually seemed to care about a relationship and i know real love still exists but its much harder to find & especially online...
Mary087
Xper 6 Age: 27 