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Hypothetical story: You’re online dating, and a female writes to you, showing a bit of interest. You then exchange numbers, and start texting, infrequently, as you’re both busy with work, life etc.

You then start talking on the phone.

Due to the infrequency of communication, she asks whether you want to keep communicating or not. You state that you do, and suggest either another phone call, or a coffee. She chooses the phone call over the coffee, saying it is easier for her at this stage (the real unknown reason being that she wants to figure him out a bit more first - make sure that he’s safe and normal). Another few weeks go by, of infrequent texts (occasionally 3 texts in a day, and sometimes 3 days in between texts, and occasional phone calls, lasting 1, sometimes 2 hours).

In this situation, if the woman does really want to meet the guy, what should she do?

(She wants to show interest, however doesn’t want to come across as too forward, and scare him away).

Ask him out to a coffee?

Point out how long they’ve been communicating for, and point out that they’re becoming like pen friends? And ask him how he feels about that?

Drop a hint that she’s free next weekend?

Do nothing, stop contacting him, and see if he starts pursuing her more?