Search Results: movies or restaurant

I met a guy on Tinder, he is very smart, he is well-off, has published books and is super interesting... he is 37 and I am 26. I recently got out of a relationship (about 6 months ago) and decided to start dating again. I have always dated guys my age, so this is a big change. We went on a date to this expensive restaurant and he did not let me get the check... two days after that he invited me to his house to watch movies (I know! but we didn't have sex) we just kissed and things got intense, but no sex (oral or whatsoever).

There was chemistry, obviously.. but then he took me home and that was really refreshing.. a guy my age would have had sex right away... since I wasn't really saying no, but he said it was better to wait.. and then the next day, he invited me again to come over. I asked him if he just wanted to hook up or actually see me... he said he really enjoyed hanging out with me... so anyway I went over and i slept over, we DID NOT have sex or even hook up, we just slept together cuddling...


I don't know, I just don't want to do it right away, but I want to keep seeing him! I think there is potential here, but he is much older. He could be using me and just waiting for me to "give in" and fuck him. I've seen him three times now, and before I slept over at his house he suggested to go out during the week, to the movies or have dinner. But then today he didn't mention it... I just want to do the right thing to keep this going on. I was in a 4-year relationship before, so I don't know how to do this. What would you guys do? How do older men think? He is not pressuring me for sex but it builds up! I would like to have sex with him, but I want this to last and not just be a Tinder hookup... :( what do I do?

I've been with my boyfriend for about four years, and I think we have a great relationship except for the fact that he spends too many hours playing online PC games.

We met in college, and we spent a lot of time together; we used to see a movie every couple of weeks, spend our afternoons and evenings watching Netflix, we went to an animal shelter to "look" and just "pet" some of the animals and I came home with a cat. We used to try new restaurants, go to the gym, and we used to spend some of our afternoons playing Mario Kart and Assassin's Creed. We don't do these things anymore.

For Christmas (2014), I got my boyfriend computer parts to build a PC; this was supposed to be my super awesome Christmas present to him.

I should've bought him fucking legos for Christmas.

This Christmas present resulted in him playing video games more often - which I was totally okay with. Why wouldn't I want him to play with the Christmas gift I got him? Now he plays so much that I feel neglected.

My boyfriend goes to work, comes home, sits on the couch for an hour to eat and browse Reddit, and then starts playing WoW or something else with his headset on. He probably starts playing by 6:30 or 7:00 p. m. (he comes home between 5:30 p. m. and 6 p. m.), and then he plays until about 11:30 p. m. or midnight. By that time, I'm already in bed and ready to sleep.

We always argue about how much he plays, but nothing has changed over the past year. He also says that video games is the only time he can really talk and kind of "hang out" with his friends since they all moved to different cities for work - and I understand that.

I don't think he's "addicted," but he plays a lot more than I'd like him to. I told him I've been feeling sad, lonely, and just depressed, but he doesn't care enough to make any adjustments - he justifies his game time.

So tell me, mysterious people of the internet, am I being needy? Is he being selfish? Am I in a love triangle with my boyfriend's PC?