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my boyfriend and i seem to argue about everything lately. we've been dating for over 2 and a half years and live together as of the beginning of April. i don't know why, but my boyfriend seems as if he's being so careless about everything. everything can be described as "my feelings"

for the past month he doesn't seem the same. he seems more "strict" (i think from stress of work), and just straightforward/"get it done". maybe because he's very busy and overwhelmed with work, i don't know

recently i have been not the same either. i have been feeling depressed about a lot of things. i won't say what they are because they are kind of personal. my boyfriend knows about them yet he doesn't really seem to care about them

ok, maybe i'll mention two of them so there's examples of what i mean. one reason i am partially depressed is because one of my friends who i am really close with got into a vehicle collision. they are still in the hospital from 4 days ago and don't look that good from it. I'm stressed cuz i don't want them to be dead or majourly injured

the second reason I'm partially not the same is cuz school has been very stressful to the point that i actually have started crying because it's so overwhelming. my boyfriend came home, seen me crying, asked why I'm crying, i told him why, and he replied with "oh... well uhm, thats bad i guess..." then just left the room

when my boyfriend sees i was upset, he asks why. i tell him why, and he says something that seems to make me feel worse rather than better. he usually would always feel "sympathetic" or at least be supportive when id just be at my worst

i know that doesn't seem like much of a big deal, but i really don't know how to word it to make sense from my perspective. but even when i leave my binder out from university, he gets so ticked off about that whereas before, he usually would just move it himself. if i don't, I don't know, do something right when he asks, he kinda gets on my case about it whereas, again, he usually never would

Is it a lot of arguments in a relationship unhealthy?
Me and my boyfriend been together for over a year
When things are good, its reaaaallly good
But sometimes we argue over little things and ofcourse some serious things
Most of the times (im not gonna lie), i start the drama
He is patient and all but if im accusing him all the time, he eventually gets mad and we then argue
Most of the times, the arguments is over the phone
We talk on the phone everyday before we go to sleep (he likes to call me everyday)
When we do argue over the phone, either me or him hangs up and then we talk next day or we go few days not talking and then seeing each other
When we see each other after argument, its awkward and stuff but he still tries to talk to me.. and about what happened.
And then after few hours, it goes all fine and we go back to normal
We have been arguing nearly every week
there's always something that comes up
Im not gonna lie.. i can be abit dramatic and i overreact to things..
But is this normal?
Is this unhealthy?