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We had been dating for a year, but things were not official until few months ago. He only started to meet my friends/family when we became an item. Now that things are official, I thought he would be open-minded about meeting his circle. Sadly, it seems like
he’s not very into inviting me to meet his circle of people. But all his friends and family knows about me, and that we are in a relationship.

I met his family during Christmas holiday, but it was kind of forced. He initially did not plan to include me. I was kind of not happy about that because he already met my family during the holiday. It’s also lockdown over here, and it has been depressing. He also had met both my best friends. He mentioned his parents got me a gift too. I gave him a chance to invite me by asking him if I’m coming... since “we” bought the gifts together. I also paid half and my name was on the card.
The way he responded was basically saying if I want to go, then go. It wasn’t him really “wanted” to include me at first. Things will get really upsetting and awkward if he still does not invite me. In the end, he felt I was being awkward , and he encouraged me to go. I met his family, and it was really great!

He was having a zoom meeting with his friends. He was the one who initiated for me to come quickly say Hi to see meet them online. After a chat for few minutes, they mention to quickly meet up on the weekend for a birthday. I assumed that I was invited because his friends were saying “you guys”. Yesterday, he mentioned that he was texting his friends what “HE” will be doing tomorrow for the birthday with his friends. It doesn’t sound like he was including me.

On top of everything, he is currently staying at my place. He had his parents to come pick him up at my place, and having me stay at home doing nothing. His parents probably would of find it weird and ask about the girlfriend. I am assuming his friends are picking him up from my place tomorrow. How do I talk to him about this?

I was with my boyfriend one night when we first started dating and he was upset I wanted a night with my girl friend. I oversaw a text from one of his best friends with a girls name saying so are you going to go see _______? He responded been there done that. We never discussed it and moved along. Well now 4 months later we are out with his friends and he is being super jealous and petty and trying to pick a fight with me. As we leave a place to meet up with more of his friends he says you need to go home. I was like wait why? He was like because I think that’s what you should do. We get to the next bar and I don’t recognize some of the girls so I go to introduce myself and as soon as I hear the girls name I knew. I turned to him and asked why he didn’t tell me. I felt kind of dumb and I think because he didn’t warn me, never told me, nothing and was also told to go home before we went there it felt extra shitty. He had told me in the beginning of us dating don’t ever let me around someone you have been intimate with without me knowing and I told him the same... I did not react well to the situation to say the least. I would have been fine if he had told me she was there and who she was. I just felt blindsided and because he had been trying to pick a fight with me all night it felt like it was on purpose. Are my feelings justified?