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So, I recently met a really nice girl at an event and we've been texting for a few days and have talked in a sci-fi facebook group she's an admin in. Now from what I understand most of her friends in this group are actually her friends in real life. I'm into geek stuff like sci-fi, comics, video games etc but i'm NOT a nerd and these guys clearly don't like that. However I think it's something she really really like about me. Scrolling up in the group chat shows a lot of them flirt and make comments that she brushes off, but it's largely stopped since I've been in the room and has been replaced with snarky comments towards me. Her and I are slated to actually see each other again and go out next week alone then we're going to a paint ball match in a few weeks with some guys from her comic book group. Anything I should/shouldn't do?

Heavens only knows why so many men like prissy feminine women, i've had my fill of it (2, was all i could stomach) and here is my take on it: if feminine women were all that was left, i'd gladly spend the rest of my life single, i feel nothing but annoyed and repulsed by them. It annoys me to no end how all relationship sites, blogs, and dating advices assumes every man likes that kind of woman, that's hogwash. Even though i'm a manly guy i'll never understand (nor do i want to) why the majority of men want a Barbie-like woman, if i wanted something submissive and mindless i'd buy a dog. I find women who don't wear dresses or gowns, shovel makeup, nag about pointless shit, spend 5 hours doing their hair, nails putting ritzy stuff and god knows what else, play "games" and instead just cut the bs and speak what's on their mind, to be much more attractive than feminine women, and i also think women who are tough, like hard sci-fi, racing and basically anything seen as masculine are even more beautiful. the less "ladylike" the more attractive, but, unfortunately, due to social expectations women who otherwise would of turned this way are cajoled into being the feminine or "normal" woman. When it comes to romantic relationships i tend to group women into two 1):Tomboys and 2):get the hell away from me. It's such a shame that the former is more rare than (and just as precious as) water in the Sahara desert , i guess i'll just have to keep being thirsty for the years to come...