Pros and cons of dating a "tomboy" type?

[redrocket68]

I just got out of a relationship with a girl who could be described as a tomboy she was feminine in all the areas that mattered to me but some things were much different than what Im used to. What is your experience with them?

[Moonchild714]

I'm a tomboy. But to put it in Pros and Cons every Tomboy is different. Like someone stated Tomboy doesn't understand how to dress for situations or is awkward in certain social settings. This NOT true, sure there are some Tomboys this applies to, just as there are some girly girls this also applies. As with all people Individuality is the key, no teo are the same. Now as I said I'm a tomboy, I know how to dress and behave in all social settings and situations. I do enjoy wearing dresses and other more dressy outfits from time to time and I love wearing jeans, t-shirts, sweats... I don't wear a lot of make-up, I love and understand sports, like action movies... Not all Tomboys have these interests. Men have told me they love that they can communicate with me, and I say what I mean, I don't play the I'm fine game when there is a problem. Anytime I have a problem, the person I have that problem with knows about it, guys like that about me, I communicate with them not give riddles and expect them to figure it out. Now there are Tomboys that do play the I'm Fine and Riddle's games... I don't know why your relationship didn't work out. But, it may not have whether she was a girly girl or tomboy, she still has her own Personality as you do yours.

[veronicalynn]

I was a tomboy growing up. I just put my long blonde hair in a ponytail and had my t-shirts and jeans. I was funny tho I loved to be outside and with my buddies but best believe my hands and shoes were always clean. I grew into well shit who am I kidding I'm still growing into my girly girl roles. I have my moments that I'm all girl then I'm right back being one of the guys. I was and still am very feminine when and where it counts but I tend to think more like one of the guys I can deal with the guys bull and be myself around them. Girls I'm picky about who I make friends with. So much drama I just can't

[Kitty369]

You will have a happy time always, laughing, no big problems, she looks and acts like you
Your biggest problem will be in cleaning coffee spilt around, getting her from the ground after slipping somehow,

Negative things, sometimes she comes in casual clothes where she should be in classic, or comes in classic but acts as if she is in casual
Sometimes she can't understand social issues , she looks and acts weird😂

[redrocket68]

I didn't mind her casual clothes because she cleaned up nice but as thr relationship progressed she just got lazy with that and everything really

[Kitty369]

I think it all relates to you! She gets bored so fast, you have to refresh and bring new things! So simple be creative make adventure, go out somewhere new or make a new idea in anything,

[redrocket68]

Ohhhhh duh of course... yes. 100% my fault because Im a man. Thats essentially the female narrative in a nutshell. You know this without any real context of my relationship too beyond the minor details provided here.

[octavia96]

Pros: she must love sports and is not afraid to get dirty
Con: its like having sex with your bro
I don't know i have never been the tom boy type long hair, dresses and heels most of the time. But hey guys have different tastes so if u dated her i assume u like the tomboy type

[redrocket68]

I like the tom boy type who is girly in all the places that matter. I find they are a little more stoic with less drama too easier to get along with

[octavia96]

What are these places that matter?

[redrocket68]

Dresses girly enough most of the time. Has girly interests as well as her tomboy ones. Sweet and caring. Stuff like that.

[Outofthegrey]

Better in almost every way except she's not going to wear a dress for you.

[Kitty369]

😂😂😂😂yes it is complicated issue for me

[Kitty369]

Jeans is good

[redrocket68]

Its annoying.. she did in the beginning but quit later

[omgjassy]

Pro: she’s your type
Con: she’s not your type

[redrocket68]

She can't be both

[omgjassy]

Yes. She can

[redrocket68]

How so