My Problem with the LGBTQ+ Fandom

[Anonymous]

No it has nothing to do with trans, gay, bi, ace or any of that..., i accept anyone the way they are ( unless of course they are a murderer)...all of this stuff is fine..and i think that everyone should accept it..however some people are going around saying that their gay only to get attention...im not saying everyone that's gay does this or trans...but it is a little annoying, some other problems i have is like we have problems with so many things in the world, world hunger, disabilities , and racism to name a few..

and people mainly on tumblr are going around yelling in peoples faces that they are something to do with the lgbtq fandom its kinda like saying "You can't touch me because im gay" or "I can't watch this because im transgender" ...this is some stuff that is ruining the rest of the lgbtq+ community people who are harmless

my other problem with it is that these people believe in rights for gays, but then some people don't believe theirs rights for trans, or others in the fandom/community don't believe theirs rights in being bi which is horrible..just to belittle everyone like that..and then complain about equality..its sickening

But one of my main problems with it is how if a girl likes cars, the color blue, video games or sports..she is labeled as a tomboy..but tomboys are labeled as either transgender or gay which is horrible as everyone is different and we shouldn't have labels for bs like this, its like having someone labeled as a pen lover for using pens, its just ridiculous, labels are stupid af, and all this blue for boys and pink for girls is stupid too, and the fact that some people in the lgbt community believe this is ok is also really annoying, because you all want equality but if you want equality your gonna have to stop saying blues for boys, and if a boy likes pink they are called gay, or a girly girl., like no they are just someone that likes a god damn colour

Did you know that most people in the lgbtq+ community believe that only guys that like shopping and like makeup and dance and have traits that a typical girl would can be gay, some people in this community say that any boy that doesn't act like that cannot be gay, how annoying is that

oh and if we all wanted equality with gender then your basically asking for everyone to be exactly the same..which can't happen..sadly i mean not until we get rid of labels and we call each person by their name and each person had a diff pronoun but that would be confusing

and yes their is only two genders..if someone wants to be both genders then they are still being two genders..

Now....going onto fandoms and such... many people despise hetero-ships which is fine..but these people also hate heterosexuals..which is weird but mk then...its not everyone..

I was reading up on something and this guy was complaining that a gay guy was dating a female in a show..and was being shipped with that girl...but then i go on another show and see a straight male being shipped with his straight bff and they both have girlfriends...

yeah.....all of that stuff is weird, people need to chill

so to sum it all up---------------------------------

1 - Some people being attention hoggers (this is ok but dont shove it down people who already accept it throats) but for haters go for it

2 - People who think stereotypes and gender shit is ok :/

3 - People who think tomboys have to be trans or gay, or Girly guys have to be trans or gay

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4 - People who make no sense in fandoms at all..

oh and 5 - BOYS CAN WEAR SKIRTS

then of course you've got people that make fun of autism despite saying they want equality..

and people that judge others and all of it just kinda needs to stop..

Like in the lgbtq+ community you would want respect, allowance, the ability to be whoever you want..but tumblr just destroys it all..I've met really kind people that are in it, really helpful and generous people, sadly I've also come across complete dicks who hate on everything, even using the word retard and thinking murder is fine..now before you get upset with me THIS IS NOT JUST THE LGBT COMMUNITY, this just happens to be many people in the community

I am not saying that all gay, bi, ace., trans or any other ..act like jerks im saying that their are people that are born assholes and just have to be gay, bi, ace, trans or other..

its kinda like how in the community of anime lovers we have complete assholes who think suicide is a joke and others who just like anime..like we really got some problems with our society..

sorry for ranting but all people wanna do now is just be as different as possible..just to get attention or any other of the things mentioned here, Thank you to all the nice people in this world, and this community who haven't done anything wrong, you should know who you are, and if you disagree with me on anything please don't start a massive argument as i will probably delete it because you are only showing me how stupid you can be and it would be embarrassing for you, instead be polite and explain why you disagree and we can just have a normal discussion

after all people are allowed to have different opinions

[Anonymous]

Very interesting, but unfortunately I have a problem with RUN-ON-SENTENCES!
There’s this neat little dot and it’s called a PERIOD. It’s is used to end a sentence. Looks like this.
Please learn to use the correct punctuation including, but not limited to, the period.
And capital letters at the start of a new sentence are nice to see too.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah this isn't school, this is the internet if you wanna rant about grammar make a intake on here somewhere else about it just as how i did with the lgbt community, you clearly understood it if you are noticing mistakes like that so their isn't really much of a problem

smallbluedog.com/why-grammar-doesnt-matter.html

thanks for your input :)

[Opinion Owner]

Perhaps you should read the article in its entirety;
The single most important reason to aim for correct usage of the English language is MEANING. You want to communicate with another human. And you want to convey exactly what you mean.
The proper use of punctuation helps us, the reader, understand what you’re trying to tell us.

[myTake Owner]

Dude if other people understood it and you can't then maybe its you with the language problem... it would only make sense?

[Opinion Owner]

I understood exactly what you were saying. Doesn’t mean you have to type like a 5 year old.

[myTake Owner]

If you understand it and everyone else understands it why exactly are you complaining?

[GinaTina]

luckly not all lgbt members are the same

[ladsin]

Seems awfully personal.
I'm not aware of anyone who claims these things

[Nice222]

Great take thanks

[Band_freak]

Honestly your take seems completely irrelevant to lgbt because everything you've said is a problem from both people in the "lgbt community" and people who aren't.

[myTake Owner]

I said a lot of times that it is mainly the lgbt community (tumblr)

[Roof-Top-Sex]

Being transsexual is a choice because you choose to have the surgery to change sex.

My problem with it is that people defend immorality just because they're afraid to stand around it. People know it's wrong but accept it.

[Anonymous]

We live in a very bigoted and stereotypical country so it's hard to shake those things off. People in the US are aware of their own ignorance and have this weird sense of pride about it. I think the word is "redneck"

[Anonymous]

This is why everyone is different and the mass of sheeples are unoriginal and boring

[ShesAmerican]

honey, you've got a big storm coming

[John_Doesnt]

They should rename this the "myRant" section.

[Gedaria]

I agree I couldn't have said it better...

[Revolver_]

I am part of the LGBTQ+ Fandom

[nanaw9282]

LGBTQ+ is a big problem itself