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Why do girls think there's too much pressure on them to have perfect bodies when they can easily get laid unless they are super obese. There are guys who like short girls, tall girls, skinny girls, chubby girls, curvy girls, fat girls, even very obese girls. Now show me a girl who is attracted to skinny or obese guys. Even if there are some on the Internet, there are none in real life! Girls in real life absolutely love tall muscular men and treat them much better than they treat other guys.

And you are trying to tell me there's too much pressure on you to have a perfect body? Try living a day as an average guy.

It's also absolutely hypocritical when girls say there's too much pressure on them when they themselves feel entitled to tall muscular men. Being a tall muscular men is much harder than being a skinny girl. If you want to stay skinny, just don't eat much. If you want to be muscular, you need to work out a lot and eat only right types and amounts of food.

Which gender is pressured more to be fit?
In my opinion, guys are under more pressure to be in athletic shape. Fit guys have much more value on the dating market than guys who are not as fit. As a slightly fit guy on the thinner side, I can definitely say dating is much better for me now that I am fitter compared to when I was skinny. Although I agree that being fit solely won't make you attractive, you need to have the whole package.

But when it comes to girls, usually the most attractive ones are not fit at all because they can still get the hottest guys. In my experience most athletic guys usually date girls who have either slim or curvy body type depending on their personal preference, but not athletic. Lots of fit girls who I know don't get guys because they lack something else. I myself rejected girls who were much fitter than me and went for less fit ones.

Of course, girls have different preferences too: those fit girls who liked me when I was skinny and not as fit as them is a good example. So what do you think about this?