Top 5 Reasons Why I Hate Exercise

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I'm fat, I'm a pig, hog, horse, hippo, fat ass, lazy whatever. I have heard it all so go ahead call me whatever you want. But this is the top 5 reasons I hate exercise!

1. Skinny bitches.

Look I want to lose the pounds, I do. But if I go to the gym or like a Zumba place it's always full of skinny as a whip people and I'm the only fat one. I feel out of place and feel like I'm being judged.

2. It makes me feel stupid.

Doing tapes by myself makes me feel stupid. I mean even the dog looks at me like I'm crazy.

3. Clothing.

I get hot in my normal clothes or my pj's and those who wear a sports bra and shorts to exercise freaks me out. I'm a really modest person, thanks to my belly. I mean, I walk in a big black hoodie when it's 90 degrees out.

4. Running.

I hate running down the street because people look at you and point at you and make fun of you.

5. Emotional eating.

After I get made fun of or ridiculed by being called fatty and shit I have always been an emotional eater. If I'm sad I eat a fucking pizza or if I'm stressed it's ice-cream or something. I have had several tests and the doctors say there is nothing wrong with me other than being too fat. I have no heart problems or blood pressure, no sugar problems, nothing. Any time I try to change and refuse to eat when I'm not actually hungry (which I'm really only hungry once a day) my grandma, mom, and aunts start shoving stuff in my face saying "eat, you need to eat."

So go ahead. Call me lazy, call me fat. I don't care, but despite my fat ass I can still do a back bend and roll my hips to the floor and back. Yeah, that's right. This fat bitch can move like them to.

[kaylaS91]

... everyone gets judged. The fact that 1/5 of your take is complaining about how some people are 'skinny bitches' because they have the willpower to workout or not overeat is a perfect example of that.

[BertMacklinFBI]

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[myTake Owner]

i know im going to regret this but sponge?

[Ephemera1]

He's telling you to soak up those excuses and drop them down the drain.

[thesongwentonforever]

Former emotional-eater and current "fit/skinny bitch" speaking, here.

To me, this just sounds like a lot of insecurity and fear of the unfamiliar being executed as irritability/anger. And well, I get that, because that was me at one point. In school I was usually the last to finish the run in p. e, often one of the first to get out of pacer, and I always watched as the athletic girls did /everything/ right that I did wrong. The boys liked them, and they got to wear all of the cute clothes. I didn't even like wearing shorts because of my sausage legs, much less wear a crop top or a bikini. And that made me resentful.

But I had to put my pride aside; deep down (or not so deep down), I was extremely insecure about it. The cool girls were setting records in weightlifting and going to Pilates and ran miles every weekend, and I couldn't even pick up a milk gallon. But I knew what I wanted. I wanted to be strong, I wanted to be able to run. Not for them, but for myself. Back to putting pride aside; I really had to! I had no access to a gym so I worked out in my room (push ups, squats, etc), and ran in circles around my house. I danced alone in the kitchen. Arm dips on the bathroom counter. Did it feel stupid at first? Of course. But the more that I did it, the more that I got used to it; and I knew that I was doing my very best with little to no resources. Exercising also made me want to eat better (and more reasonably) so that I can improve, and when I took good care of my body every day, going out with family for ice cream was no big deal; it actually tasted better, and was more enjoyable, when I didn't have it as much! I also joined the soccer team at 14; that was SO uncomfortable at first, as we ran 1.5 miles every practice and for weeks, I was always last. Very last. Everyone had to wait. But I kept at it and by the end of the year, I was with everyone else. 4 years later, I won 1st place in a 5K race-3.10 miles! So yeah, I looked stupid running alone around my house and working out with furniture, but it was worth it, and I worked hard to get where I went. No shame in it! Also, you don't have to wear skimpy stuff to work out. I never did. I just went to my first Pilates class in leggings and a sports bra a few months ago, and ran for miles in shorts and a bra in May. And now, I love crop tops. I'd never thought that I'd see the day doing ANY of those things! But no one has to go to group workouts or wear that stuff to get fit, whatever is comfortable.

[thesongwentonforever]

But please don't bash those who are fit/into health, as not all of us started out that way; exactly why I never bash those who are overweight/out of shape, and I applaud those who are and yet join that gym or are new to the Pilates class that I go to. It takes a lot of bravery and self-love to do that. As for the assholes that do laugh/pick on those out of shape (and I know some of those too), put in your headphones and keep going, they're trash.

[thesongwentonforever]

Oh and I joined soccer at 16; typo, sorry

[myTake Owner]

yahll seem to think im bashing on skinny people when im not my cousin is literally skin and bones but that because he won't eat real food just trash food like snowballs and twinkies. i dont call skinny people a bitch i call women in general bitch, hello I literally called myself bitch at the end. look i may be a whole 45 pounds over what I should be but im by no means weak or slow when I did go to real school I could keep up with the fastest kid in class when we ran laps and beat him in a race just because i wanted to prove a point because i could hear the cheerleader talking about me to her friend something along the lines of you see the fat white girl over their she run so fucking slow i can't believe that's the best she can do. I heard that and felt the need to make her eat those words i was also the only white girl in my class so I kinda stuck out for more than my belly. i can move and move decently fast when i feel like it but i dont normly like to run beucss when i was yonger i

[myTake Owner]

i snapped my ankle to the side and couldn't walk on it for 5 weeks after that at random times my ankle would just bend and id end up eating dirt the last time it did that i fell on a hill littered with broken bottles and sprained my ankle

[SirenDep]

Just stop caring so much about other people. Put headphones on and look straight ahead. If you focus on what you do and give it your best, you'll not even have the energy to care once you start sweating. About running, do it on a park or a field, where everybody is there to exercise anyway, and go on a time where there's not so many people.

And who said you have to wear skimpy clothes to exercise? Most gyms and your home have air condition. Unless you go running on the summer heat. If you check my link on what to wear for running, it's essentially a pair of tech tights and a tech shirt, which could be baggy if you want it to. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22154-what-to-wear-for-running If you search the internet, there exist stores that carry plus size tech clothes for running. And I've also spotted blogs of fat people who do yoga or run, or even have meetups and run and exercise as a team.

I feel weird as well to exercise on videos, when the videos are too cheesy. I don't like it when the gymnast looks impeccable with perfect make up and hair , and doesn't break a sweat. But I found https://www.fitnessblender.com/ , where the workout videos are free, the directions very precise and the gymnasts actually look tired after hard workouts.

And I know what you mean about pushy relatives who force food on you. In Greece food is big on social life. Inform everyone you are improving your diet. Explain it's important for you. Refuse to eat unless you're hungry. It doesn't matter if it's time for dinner. Eat as much as you need, and put the rest of the plate on the fridge to eat it later. If you'll attend a big event , eat less the days before and after it.

Sorry about the big message. I'm not trying to judge you. it's awesome you're flexible despite your weight! Just offering up solutions. I'm sure if you really want to exercise , you'll find a way.

[BrittBratt2416]

I am out of shape myself and just recently went to the gym the other day. And what i noticed was nothing but men in the gym and only 4 women, is this the reason why a lot of women aren't seen in the gym? Anyways:
1. When you're at the gym, no one really cares what you look like. Most are focused on their work out, including guys. When guys work out they could give 2 craps about who's looking. So your kind letting this insecurity get the best of you and hold you back. Stop worrying about what you look like and who's looking, just work out and do you're own thing.
2. Not a good reason to not exercise and really bad excuse. If you don't like work out tapes then just do something simple like jumping jacks, situps, push ups etc.
3. Another poor excuse. Yes when you exercise you will get hot, you will sweat.. just gotta do it and drink plenty of water to stay cool
4. Again stop worrying what others think, i see big girls walk and jog with their friends all the time.. they do not seem to care who's watching
5. I don't think im a emotional eater but i understand. If you start get emotional try to replace it with something else, like carrots or an apple.

But anyways i get what your saying, I struggle with exercising and eating right myself. I do want be in shape and look good in clothing, i also want to be healthy as well. My problem with healthy living is i like to eat what i want to eat without restrictions, today i ate a salad but i could not resist grabbing myself a twix/ some chocolate. I always have or get a craving for something sweet and its just hard to kick. The more i resist the more i want it, same with food that aren't sweets. I just don't know how some people do it honestly, it takes real dedication to eat right and get through the pain of exercising. Honestly when i was in the gym the other day, i honestly felt so envy of all the men in there lol I just hate how easy it is for them to go in there pump iron like its nothing and loose weight quickly, but that's the perks of having testosterone. Anyways i am planning on going back to gym with my boyfriend when we go again.. just gotta keep trying.

[vonasaurus]

i sort of get where you're coming from.

i love exercise, but i also like tangible results (read: progress that i can see). i have an autoimmune condition called hashimoto's thyroiditis, which basically makes working out or dieting a complete waste of time.

having worked at a gym (i taught zumba in my mid-20s), i was in great health but still felt insecure because i had to work out ten times harder than anyone else to see 1/10 of the results. i had students who ate burgers and slept all day, or popped out 5 kids, but were way skinnier than i will ever be.

(i hate those people~ they're assholes.)

as much as people in them might wish we'd go away, gyms wouldn't exist without people like us~ the ones who aren't perfect, but make the effort to improve themselves anyway. and, if someone wants to make fun of you for trying to better yourself, fuck 'em.

re: emotional eating, it sounds like you've realized that there's an issue. talk to your doctor, and perhaps s/he can refer you to a nutritionist, who can create a health plan specifically tailored to your needs.

better yet, find a friend or family member who will support you~ i'm still recovering from a major leg injury, but my mom says that we'll work on losing weight together once i'm able to walk unassisted. plus, it'll be easier to stay on track if you all motivate each other.

(hell, if you can't get a friend or family member on board, i'll be your workout/diet buddy once i'm able to walk properly. the buddy system exists for a reason: there's strength in numbers!)

it's not about the number on the scale; it's about your health. you may not have heart disease or anything like that now, though it's a very real concern.

i don't love my body. even 'like' is too strong a word. but it's the only one i've got, and i've learned to accept it (and its limitations).

[Kaazsz]

Hi OP! I'm gonna link one of my favorite people, boogie2988! A man who weighed almost 600lbs and recently got gastric bypass surgery to lose weight! He's an awesome dude. He had a horrible fucked up childhood and he understands you even if he doesn't know you. Listen to what he says and I hope you'll be happier one day =D

Most commenters here are intellectually lazy. They don't want to think, they don't want to feel. They don't care about your life or your situation. They have easy lives probably and don't understand what it's like to be you! So fuck them, don't listen to people who talk shit. They are useless.

Life sure does suck. And for a lot of people it can take decades to learn that life doesn't have to suck, and life can be awesome! So OP I hope you remember that. Life doesn't have to be shit, you don't have to wish you were dead every day. But how to get there? Well I'm still learning myself but people like boogie in the video I'm gonna link help me to figure things out a bit, combined with my own 30+ years of life experience lol.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vs8C-cUQ0ZA

[myTake Owner]

People think because it says I don't like to exercise means that I'm automatically 900 pounds and don't exercise but in reality I'm a whole 40 pounds over what I should be and I do exercise I just don't like it unless it's something fun like tag or volly ball aggressive capter the flag tennis or swimming

[Crapulux]

> Skinny bitches.

You made a spelling mistake. Correction: normal looking women.

> I get hot in my normal clothes or my pj's and those who wear a sports bra and shorts to exercise freaks me out.

You got no choice, burning calories releases lots of heat. You're gonna look like a dork. Everyone does. See below for details.

> I hate running

Don't run while fat, you'll bust your knees. Cycling is much better. Also walking, especially uphill.

> Emotional eating

If you want to stuff your face, there are tons of delicious stuff you can cook which are not junk food. Plus cooking is fun.

> Any time I try to change and refuse to eat when I'm not actually hungry (which I'm really only hungry once a day) my grandma, mom, and aunts start shoving stuff in my face saying "eat, you need to eat."

Enlist the help of a nutritionist. That will give you a legit pretext to send them off. Or tell them you have diabetes or something. Give your mom something to be paranoid about that actually helps you.

Now, about the girls on the video: this is not "exercise". This is wiggling around. My 76 year old mom can do that without breaking a sweat. Also, the "music" gives explosive diarrhea to my ears.

And these girls are wearing pants! That's why I never go to the gym. It's always full of girls wearing pants and tons of clothes and shit. Also since girls are always cold, even with pants, the heating's on, resulting in some unbearable tropical climate like 25°C. Which precludes any kind of intense workout.

[myTake Owner]

First off I didn't say it was a work out it was the only video I could find with a hip roll. u all act like I'm calling skinny wemon bitch but it's not because thair skinny I think of all wemon as bitch

[pretty-kitty]

All I hear is excuses, you feel uncomfortable in a room full of "skinny bitches" so you don't go to the gym or classes. You feel stupid working out at home so you don't do that either. You don't like running because people point and laugh.. I'm really fat and never once have I seen anyone point and laugh at me when I'm working out so maybe stop paying attention to other people and focus on yourself and the end goal. If people laugh that's a reflection of their poor character, you're actually out there doing something so those people can go fuck themselves.

As far as your family feeding you goes, it's still your choose at the end of the day. Trust me, I understand emotional eating.. that's how I've gotten to be so big but I'm the only one to blame. Stop blaming others and realise this is all you, that's the fist step you have to take. Unless they're holding you down and putting food in your mouth making you eat it, stop blaming others.

Lastly, don't call slim girls skinny bitches. Do not shame them to feel better about yourself, they likely work really hard to have the bodies they do so you have no right to shame them, it's just as bad as fat shaming and it's not ok.

[myTake Owner]

OMG women is a pain in the ass and only woman are complaining about the skinny bitch thing I refure to all wemon as bitch because I hate women hello at the vary end I litterly called myself fat bitch so stop acting like I'm only calling skinny people bitches because I'm not

[myTake Owner]

O and it's called I have social anxiety so get off my ass

[pretty-kitty]

You can refer to yourself in whatever manner you like that still doesn't make it ok to shame other people. You made it clear that you don't like to be laugh, pointed at and called names so why do you think it's ok to call other people names? If those people who call you names call themselves names too, does that make it ok?

[pretty-kitty]

Again, another excuse. You have social anxiety? Go get help. I'm fat, I get it but stop blaming other people for where you are.

[MackFreeze]

I am assuming this is satire, nevertheless fat people should feel bad about working out, they should be focused on betterment of themselves not other people. There are tons of exercises that one may find dreadful yet many others they find wonderful. I wouldn't suggest you hate an exercise just because you are not good at it. Everyone is not good at anything in the beginning, no one is born running. We crawl, then stand, then walk, then jog, then run.

If you don't like being seen while exercising then try a at home routine like body weight squats, jump rope, get a weight set, there is numerous things left to try. Swimming might suit your, or hiking.

If someone really wants to change they need to change their mindset and lifestyle not just the outside factors, everyone can support you but that doesn't make you lose weight, only you do. Love, believe, and support yourself, and others too! Hating others only hurts yourself! If you make fun of skinny people now, what do you expect to get back in return? Don't make fun of others if you can't handle whats coming.

Change your diet, go on a cleanse fast, stop drinking sodas, eat no more refined sugars or fast food, eat more green foods, try intermittent fasting, go to bed earlier and sleep more, take a walk every day, cut back 500 calories every 4 days until you reach a natural caloric intake for your height.

Stop waiting and start doing!

[myTake Owner]

First off I can't do what I want tillI I'm 18. Second I don't get to pick what I eat. I tried just drinking that powder between meal's which worked till my evil FUCKING cousin took my shit. And not like I can just go swim or go to the gym everyday because I need mom to take me And she won't any time I do anything my family makes fun of me. and I'm not making fun of skinny people?

[samsmoove]

Excuses excuses excuses... it doesn't take much to ask your parents to give you a smaller portion or if you can cook a meal for yourself. It also doesn't take much to go out for a walk or do some burpees or something... but you'd rather make excuses...

[MackFreeze]

If your family makes fun of you, ignore them. You have a goal to be healthy and you should not let other peoples opinions get in your way, especially the negative self talk in your head. You can only change if you want to change, you have to be willing to.

[myTake Owner]

@samsmoove you know you should really shut your damn mouth when you don't know what your talking about. Don't act like you know shit about me because you don't know the first thing about me or my life so zip it. First parentS I think you mean my mom 2 you don't do anything against my mother's wishes ok my mother is a loud mouth alcoholic and she yells at me when she not even pissed at me so I prefer not to tick her off. Second I can't walk down the street ok I live on the bad Sid of down which involves a lot of drunks fallowing me or getting attacked by that DAMN dog. Did I say I don't exercise no I said I don't like to so shut it

[myTake Owner]

@samsmoove and just an FYI I used to be a skinny bitch like the girls in the video but with bigger boobs but then I packed on a Few from being shoved in a car moving from place to place every 5 to six months do you have any idea how much fast food and lack of movement is involved in that shit a lot I can tell you what they have at McDonald's without looking and I fucking hate McDonald's if I have to eat one More grease thing from that place I'm going to fucking shoot someone. And you think I fat and lazy like I can't pick up 20 pound's without panting well guess every time we go to the store what I can carry in Two 45 pound bags of dog food and one thing of cat litter up the stairs at one time I don't have to carry cat food because we buy it 5 bags at time so bite me

[MackFreeze]

We are trying to offend you, we just want to try to help you the best we can, thats what this site is for anyway.

[samsmoove]

45 lbs of dog food isn't much if you're trying to seem strong lol...

[samsmoove]

And as i said its not what you eat but how much you eat

[myTake Owner]

@samsmoove first off I said 2 of them and cat litter at once learn some math second I can lift more than that after all I pick up my 180 pound cousin all the time with his brother hanging off my neck who's 80 pound's. I'd probably only be able to do it once and only for a few seconds but I could probably lift my older cousin Aaron who's 350 pound's but like I said I'd be Dead after. And just an FYI your logic is WRONG I went 4 month's eating once a day in a bowl the size of a rice bowl never Lose a single pound. just another FYI have you seen the average girl try to lift 40 pounds they struggle so I'm doing pretty good for a girl so back up off me or you'll be on the knuckle sandwich diet.

[myTake Owner]

You may not be trying to but the other jack ass Shure is he's been ripping on me on several people's opinions

[MackFreeze]

Im sorry he is insulting you, but you give him all the more power by replying back to him. I would think about how you react. Don't take this comment of his so seriously, if you don't agree with him don't say anything. What are you trying to prove by lifting cat litter? You should focus on validation from yourself. You may have everyone agree with you, but don't get validation from anyone but yourself, it doesn't matter what we think, it matters what you do about yourself. You can't control what he or anyone says. Focus on what you can do to make your life better. Cheers!

[myTake Owner]

My life is shit id rather be drowned in the lake

[MackFreeze]

Life is tough, its up to you to conquer your life, not anyone else! Your the superhero in this movie, are you in the turning point where your life begins to change? You are breathing, living, and have a place to stay, food in your stomach. I would say you have the basics down, now you need to focus on the next task. Pursue the best version of yourself, not who others want you to be! The odds of you being born are 1:400,000,000,000,** so I would say, you got it pretty nice! Your here on Earth! You have life! A life to be living and growing! No one can stop you and no one is but yourself from changing to the person you wish to be! What ever hill your climbing, know that there will always be a slope down the other side once you reach the top. A slope to relax and enjoy your works to get up the hill. You will never get to level 2 if you are stuck on level 1. You can do it, you can better yourself! We believe in you! You just have to love, believe, and support yourself for a change!

[myTake Owner]

Yeah sure because believing I can throw that cinder block over that fence made it happen not it came back and tried to kill me. The only thing I intend in life was living as far from people as possible basically a farm without people.

[MackFreeze]

You may live as you please, but I advise you to face your fears and problems and handle them swiftly and safely. You don't have to be miserable, people are good! Especially if your good to them first.

[samsmoove]

Lol how am I ripping on you? All i said is you make a lot of excuses and it's not what you eat but how much you eat but you seem to struggle with the truth

[myTake Owner]

in real life im far more pleasant I smile and play nice no matter how much I want to punch them. because my life depends on me being able to bite my tongue. I'm completely happy with being alone my whole life checking to see if a cow pig horse or sheep or prego. or pollinating vanilla orchids. i always got along better with animals than people even when I was skinny i used to sleep in a pile of stray dogs

[MackFreeze]

I would say in human nature, there is no better joy than helping a fellow human, no matter who you are. It is free to do as well! You can seclude yourself if you wish, but we will be here anytime. Someone may need your help, your skill set. Before you help anyone else, you need to help yourself!

[myTake Owner]

yah yah i know I do help humans i mean i do common things like opening doors help people move and help old ladys take thair stuff to the car or help them into their vehicle hell mom came home with bunch of the women from work and i spent the night giving back and foot rubs but that was more against my will and what not. will admit I was pretty happy when i found a stray dog got it brushed out and house broke then found it a home with somone who matched them champ a golden retriever that loved being brushed found a home with a little girl who loved to brush and style hair and he really dident mind the bow. but like I said I have always been a recluse im not around people unless I have to be. and i always liked farming and the woods

[MackFreeze]

Thats is wonderful! Especially if that makes you happy!

[myTake Owner]

if what makes me happy?

[MackFreeze]

Being in nature without others, I personally couldn't handle that

[myTake Owner]

why?

[MackFreeze]

I enjoy interacting with other people and being secluded would be more of a pain for me. I find it relaxing at times, but need a balance.

[myTake Owner]

your one of the people ho get cabin fever right

[MackFreeze]

No I would be fine alone if I had to survive, but I want to be around people and get things done. I think it would be nice to own a small piece of land and farm a little.

[myTake Owner]

kk...

[Faye4ever]

You know, I do understand that working out can be embarrassing and intimidating in front other people in the beginning, but there comes a point where you have to forget about everyone and do it for you. Seriously.

I may have never been heavy before, but I used to be afraid of gyms because I was super weak. SUPER WEAK. I started off only doing some things in 10 lbs. and some warm up stuff with even 5 lbs. 5 LBS! And I knew that nobody else was lifting that little. I was surrounded by men and women who were curling 40-60 lbs.

But I realized I had to do it for me. No matter what they were thinking in their heads about me. And now I can do some exercises at 35-40 lbs.

Also you never know that maybe some of those people at your zumba class, used to be bigger but didn't give up. Maybe they go there just to stay in shape.

But the fact that skinny girls are there doesn't mean its better to be surrounded by more overweight people just to feel more secure. The fact that they are skinny doesn't mean that your excluded or singled out. Everyone is there to workout. And if you pay for it, your allowed to be there. Don't "create" a feeling or obstacle that keeps you from what you want. And if you already did create one, face it.

[bellagsully]

It's unfortunate you feel this way. Honestly at the gym, nobody gives a shit. I'm small and I feel like I'm being judged at the gym but when you think about it, everyone's just there to do their own thing and typically most people don't care what size you are. One of my friends that I workout with is overweight but I don't care, what matters is that she's exercising. And for your clothes, it doesn't matter what people think. Wear what you want. In public, people wear freaky shit and it doesn't matter and at the gym, some guys were clothes that are too tight, some mom's wear super baggy clothes, some girls wear just a tshirt and shorts- the point is, what you wear is irrelevant as long as you're cool w yourself. If you don't want to run, don't run. There are other ways to be active. And if you are having trouble monitoring and modifying your eating habits, maybe you should see a nutritionist. Hopefully this helps. Overall, I think your fitness life will be easier if you build your confidence.

[MermaidMotel]

LMFAO.. I'm mad I didn't do a mytake on this first!!😂😂

I HATE, HATE, HATE working out in front of others and being confined into a building with a bunch of other sweaty people going "UGH!", "AGHH!", "OHHH!". I hate using sweaty machines. I hate the thought of people looking at me. I hate people constantly taking photos and recording. I hate people seeing me at my UGLIEST: sweaty, out of breath, hair a mess, flustered, etc. I hate showering in public places. So many things I hate about the gym...

I prefer not to walk/run in the neighborhood/streetside.. I normally go to the park if I feel like walking or running. My park is very woodsy so you can't really make out people unless you are directly near them.

I bought an in-home bike and I just use that to excercise. I hate excercise, but try to control my eating. My body type is relatively average.

I hope you gain more self-confidence. I always find it sad to hear when people don't want to wear certain things because they care too much about what others think. You're still young! You need to appreciate your youth and beauty because it won't be there forever and then eventually we'll die. I hope your appreciate your body more!

[BlueEyesWD]

Sounds very stereotypical "bitches"... so I am going to guess that you are an African American woman... since 70% of the obesity in the States belongs to the female African Americans and since you mention "bitches" too often. Anyway I might be wrong... but in any case nutrition is important and I am not telling you to eat like a peasant however if you removed the fried food from your menu then you are doing something good already as well as eating only fruits at dessert specifically the granny smith ones (green apples). No white bread as it is fattening so if you are going to have pasta it should be wholesome foods. Cut the sodas as well, in fact cut anything that has sugar in it. More veggies in your diet. If you are that fat as the examples you gave us... you will face bigger problems than just getting tired.

Find professionals to help you with your problem. Don't be afraid, they are not going to laugh at you or anything. It's their job and you are not their first they will see that has the problem.

[myTake Owner]

First off I'm as White as it gets 2 I only curse online 3 I'm a whole 45 pounds overoverweight not like I'm 300 4 I don't like sugar much considering I got Caps on my teeth when I was little and when they were removed it made them hurt if I ate sugar.

[BlueEyesWD]

Ok thanks.

[JustBoredGirl]

Wow this is clearly a fitchick shaming post. You should be ashamed of yourself. You make every overweight girl out there look like a bitch.

1= Everyone gets judged no matter his weight. If you can't ignore it your life will be miserable and full of insecurity no matter how thin and fit you get. I get judged all the time because of the way I dress in the gym. So what?

2= Stupid? So why are you jealous of every fit hot girl working out and having this killer body you wish you had? Looks like you're the stupid one. Get a hold of youself.

3= Clothing is just a matter of research and trial and error. You may have less choices than me, i agree to that, but I see a lot of fat chicks in the gym looking good. Some are actually so well dressed I ask where they shop.

4=I told you everyone will judge no matter how hard you try. So just dont care.

5= Sorry but emotional eating is just an excuse. Im a girl too and its bullshit. Its ok to eat a bunch of crap one or two days on your way to your period but thats about it. 2 days vs the other 28 of the month is nothing. Quit the shit and shut your mouth. Its easy but you need to believe and not wait for god to turn you thin.

Anyways, this was a really mean post so i had to counter it. I dont like haters. My advice is to see a therapist as you seem to have willpower issues. You re weak inside. If you keep this mentality you will always be stopmed in life. I wish you the best.

[myTake Owner]

And I wish for you to snap a leg and me to get shot. did I say fit people were stupid no I said i got that I feel stupid. You talking about me taking everything to personally well your a fucking hypocrite you sure took the mytake personally. Did I say it was skinny people who made fun of me no I didn't. Did I say all people eat when thair stressed or sad no I didn't I said I did so I'm so fucking sorry if eating a fucking pizza was the only way I could find to deal with an alcoholic mother who yelled me into a corners a alcoholic dad passed out on the floor and a faimly in constant never ending war so I'm so fucking sorry if the God damn twinky made me feel better because it's was proven in a lab are Brain relaces dopamine when we eat so bite me.

[myTake Owner]

And I didn't say I don't excersice I said I don't like it thairs a difference.

[JustBoredGirl]

I dont care about your excuses. Most people have a hard time so save it. You are just looking for an easy way out. No there isn't. Seems to me you deserve it. And yes i took the mytake personally because its clearly fit shaming, wether you admit it or not. Its full of hints that exercising makes you look stupid and that skinny girls are bitches (hello first 2 words of your take, skinny bitches) flaming you. Everyone flames everyone. Deal with it as we do. Seriously go see professional doctors as your pretty messed up inside. You are making every overweight person in the world look bad.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah I said skinny bitch because I refure to all women as bitch. I have nothing against skinny people every friend I ever had was really skinny Not like fit skinny like I suck in my tummy and look like a skeleton skinny not sure why either they normally ate way more than me. O and I'm a whole 40 pounds overweight according to the doctors so sue me. And I'm pretty sure you can't fit shame someone I mean what are you going to say o look you have a six pack you should be ashamed pfft.

[JustBoredGirl]

Hate hate hate. All you can do is hate. And yes you can shame and flame fitchicks. Im always called slut, ho, tramp etc. You know who calls me that? Fat chicks like you, that wish they were like me but bacause they dont want to put in the hours, they try to knock me down to their level. Women can be real bitches when we are jealous and especially fat chicks like you. Hate hate hate.

[myTake Owner]

WOW who's the hatter now like I said I refure to all women as bitch not just skinny people. And I don't Call anyone slut whore or tramp FYI if I did I wouldn't here the end of it for year's I'm always polite to everyone in real life and put on a smile no matter how much I want to punch them In the mouth. You honestly think I give a DAMN if your skinny or not because I don't. And FYI I used to be skinny used to Ware pretty cloths and dress like a girl but guess what I don't know I used to move so much it didn't matter what I ate my favorite game was volleyball which kept me thin but then we kept moving every six months and no one would play with me anymore. My mom's virshon of fun is watching TV mine is dancing and volleyball not that I get to do that anymore

[myTake Owner]

Litterly at the end of the take I refure to myself as far bitch

[JustBoredGirl]

I have waisted enough time here. Change your mentality or 10 years from now I see you fat and still bitching about us fitchick sluts getting all the guys.

[myTake Owner]

See now your just making shit up like I said before I don't care if you skinny or not but believe what you want I don't have time for this I got subfloor to lay

[myTake Owner]

and i do exercise believe it or not I just don't like it there's a difference dude

[Anonymous]

Physical exercises often seem boring, monotonous, and repetitive. Instead of doing physical exercises, I think it is important to introduce just a little bit of strenuous physical activity that you can enjoy. The main purpose of strenuous physical activity is to challenge your muscles and strengthen them. Similarly, you eat a lot of whole fruits and vegetables to feed your brain and your body. I hope you do engage in some form of intense physical activity. You may try swimming or ice skating. The water and ice can easily cool you down. You may also try social dancing and burn a lot of calories that way, as well as meet someone special. :D

[myTake Owner]

I don't like people. i do love to swim but don't get to do it much. i can't ice skate i don't like the ice i can't stand on it i fall down and the last time i was on ice it was 2 thin and i fell in the water

[BaileyisDarcy]

Oh cry me a fucking river.

Your attitude to the people trying to give you advice is disgraceful. Youve come up with every excuse in the book.

"Oh i can't walk cause i live in a bad neighbourhood" so how the hell do you get anywhere if you can't leave the house? You own two dogs. When do they get walked?

"Oh i can't set up equipment cause i sleep on the couch" you live with your parents yet dont have a room? Thats either fucked up or you're a REALLY inconsistent liar.

"I already tried eating healthy. didn't work" try again and this time do it properly for longer than a week.

*context- suggestion of doing pushups and situps* "i dont have a place to do that right now" so... Your house doesn't have a floor? Is that what you're saying right now?

Stop making excuses. You are the only person holding you back. Not your parents. Not your neighbourhood. Not your apparent lack of floor or anyone who "points and laughs" YOU are the ONLY PERSON holding you back.

[myTake Owner]

first, of hun, i dont live with my dad my parents are not together. I live in a house with 9 people and im the one who got stuck with the living room along with my cousin hence the half a couch. second, when did i say i had 2 dogs? third, i was referring to the dumbles, not the push-up. forth did this my take say why I DON'T exercise no it says why I hate it I do exercise i just don't like it kinda like doing taxes you don't want to but you do it anyway. and all you all on here be acting like im 800 pounds and can't walk because of lymphoma reality check dude according to the doctore a girl of my hight should be 180 pound im a whole whopping 46 pounds over what i should be not like the world is going to burn becuss of it. and just an FYI i ate the damn lawn clippings in rice bowl for 3 months, not a week smart-ass

[BaileyisDarcy]

You said at one point that you carry two bags of dog food and cat litter home from the store (see? You CAN walk around your neighbourhood) I misremembered that as meaning you had two dogs. But thats still one dog that needs walking.

Also i never said you live with your dad. I said parents. I dont live with my mum but i still call dads place my parents place.

If you hate where you live so much then get a job and move out.

And nobody is acting like you are 800 pounds (is that even a possible weight?) we're just offering advice to someone who made a take sounding VERY salty about not being "skinny as a whip".

And by the way, i assumed a week because of your attitude. The amount of excuses you make and your short temper (read *complete lack of matters*) doesn't instill much confidence that you are at all the kind of person to follow through with... Well anything.

[myTake Owner]

yah because i totally stopped half way making my cousins Halloween costume because of im fat and lazy right. look even if i did work at some place where id even come close to being able to move out and live in an apartment it wouldn't really matter because it's still a shit town no matter where you live in it. yes 800 pounds is a real thing don't get me wrong they can't walk the have a shit load of lymphoma and get sores between their fat that if it's not cleaned will get an infection. but 800 pound people do exist if I remember the record holder was 1311 pounds. just like how their people with 115-pound scrotums. and your right i do have dogs i have 2 but in the whole house thairs 7 dogs and 3 cats.

[BaileyisDarcy]

Why do you assume i think you're lazy just because you say you're fat? Youve got issues.

And it would matter, because then youd have your own space. Your own bed and no cousin to take your protein shakes.
And no excuses. Though i guess thats whats stopping you, huh.

[myTake Owner]

(i assumed a week because of your attitude. The amount of excuses you make and your short temper (read *complete lack of matters*) doesn't instill much confidence that you are at all the kind of person to follow through with... Well anything.) try again and this time do it properly for longer than a week.) yah you indarectly call me lazy. like i said i dident ask fro annyones help it says why i dont like it not that i dont do it

[NerdyBlackSheep]

Dont feel ashamed. If people laugh at least you're the one doing something. I was 15 and 265 lbs. Even my family hated me. I did my thing and now im 17 and 174. I feel great and nobody can laugh anymore. Even some who laughed at me want to act all chummy. But i never forget what i used to be and am helping a friend in the same place. Dont forget to stay on target and soon you will become the cream of the crop.

[myTake Owner]

Wow. But can't say I'm surprised but can't say I'm not ashamed it's pretty easy to make me feel like shit

[curiousnorway]

I also hates exercising. Here's my reasons:
1. It's boring and I don't think it's fun at all.

2. As a high sensitive person bad smells like sweats isn't fun. Nor is perfume or pain in my body because of exercise.

3. I'm slow, weak etc. I'm slim, but I'm still a lot slower than most overweight people. I'm able bodied.

4. I'd rather spend my time at something fun instead of this. I also thinks it's better living a fun life that's shorter than a boring life that's longer.

5. Hates sport and have ball phobia.

[myTake Owner]

ball phobia?

[curiousnorway]

Yeah, it exists. I don't like when people throws balls and I'm not into them hitting my head.
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[myTake Owner]

seems like a odd thing to be afraid of you would probably die in my family. im not much for sports but my favorite is volleyball

[markymark9090]

You're stuck in a toxic rut of binge eating and unhealthy people.

You may not have health problems now but you will. You'll probably die in a few years if you continue your self-destructive behaviour.

You're able to rationalise your feelings very well and pretend you don't care but you're sad and hurting.

Healthy-minded people don't abuse themselves with fake junk food because they had a bad day.

I'd start with a therapist (one who will be honest with you) before attempting any exercise.

Your problem is with how you think.

And you should also tell your family to f*ck off. They are partly responsible by making you so obese by encouraging you to eat. So evil.

[myTake Owner]

um you act as though im 300 pounds im a whole 40 pounds over what i should be. also you act as though what i eat is snake cakes and pizza when its not im actually very picky and my favorite food is chicken spinage and rice

[Anpu23]

This is part of my garage. I bought everything second hand from charity shops like Goodwill. My entire investment was under $250.00 and now I have the privacy to work out how I want, when I want and with no judgment. Just a thought.

[scorpioDude]

hell yah dude!

[Wonderer89]

Great idea 😊

[myTake Owner]

Yeah cool but I can't do that I mean right now my bedroom is the living room couch

[scorpioDude]

push ups, sit ups, weights u can buy at Walmart lol u don't need this stuff ! Sure it great to have it ! but I don't really need it

[myTake Owner]

@scorpioDude I don't have a place to do that kinda thing right now

[Anpu23]

Space is an issue, that's the first hurdle for you. Just slay that dragon and then look at the next.

[myTake Owner]

I can't slay shit my only space is half the couch in the living room

[Anpu23]

Okay each hurdle is just another dragon. Getting the income to improve your life, finding your own place, etc etc each one a hurdle to overcome.

[myTake Owner]

Dude I'm a teenager not a 20 year old

[Anpu23]

Are you over 16? Can you get a job? Even a part time one? Can you save a little cash? Figure out where you want to be, and make a plan to get there. It's how it works. Age is just a number.

[myTake Owner]

I'm not even out of high school yet dude and after that I'm sapoused to go to college so being fat is the least of my worry's

[scorpioDude]

okay now u r making excuses! u can do it in your backyard or garage!!!

[myTake Owner]

@scorpioDude like I said before I Lost a lot of the pound's when I swam every day and played just dance

[scorpioDude]

-_- I'm done with you lol

[myTake Owner]

@scorpioDude kk have fun

[Anastasiya00]

Oh honey I totally understand you! I hated going to the gym at first and to the date I still hate getting ready hahahahahaha but don't let this stop you from getting healthy! How do you know? maybe those ''skinny bitches'' started like you and got skinny by constantly going to those classes! Maybe they are actually really nice and would be glad to help you on your lifestyle change! Is so common for people to think everyone is judging them at the gym when in reality nobody cares we are all busy doing our thing and being self conscious about ourselves lol. You can just try to little by little quit your emotional eating habits and do small exercises at home and then when you feel more confident join a gym