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I'm a 20 year old American guy who's currently enrolled in college here in the state of AZ. My left eye is a very strong normal eye and can read 20/20 while with my lazy right eye, the highest vision level I can read is somewhere between 20/70-20-100ish. Although I technically wasn't diagnosed of ADHD by an actual psychiatrist or professional, I was diagnosed by my public school (at some behavioral center that they have) back when I was in elementary school. As of right now, I do try to be attentive when people try to tell me something but at times, still daydream a bit and then politely try to ask the person to repeat some of the things he/she just told me. As for my physical body shape and condition, I run a lot of miles and occasionally lift weights. I also used to box when I was younger.

Are these huge red flags if I plan on becoming a police officer?

Here's my story:

I have been in a long distance relationship with this girl for almost a year now. We were friends before we dated, and needless to say, there were several parts of her that i didn't like as a friend. But i have come to like her (and love her) ever since we dated, however, It seems like there are more pressing "red flags" that are resurfacing.

1. She's hella insecure. She cries a lot. Has a lot of hate from the past that she can't let go. She doesn't think she's pretty (although i always tell her), She thinks she won't go far in this world, She thinks she sucks as a person generally.

2. She's pretty immature. We're 4 years apart, I'm a young professional; I work full time and have my own business. She's still in college, and an only child. She has a loooot of issues. I don't think we synch because of the differences in maturity. I'm pretty independent, I always travel, although i'm an introvert, i make it so that i can at least talk to people. She's pretty much a social recluse, and sometimes i feel like she hates everybody. And sometimes i'm taking on the role of the big brother, and she, the spoiled little sister.

3. She's not very smart. I myslef am pretty big on social issues, political, environmental, etc. But i can't have meaningful conversations with her at the least. She doesn't have much to say about anything that involves logical critical thinking. Sometimes it drives me nuts.

Aside all that though, she's really caring and pretty sweet. By far, she's been the best girlfriend i had and i love her to bits. She always showers me with hugs and kisses, and love i just can;t get enough of.

Should I stay with her? or would these "red flags" be a problem if we started living together? I really need your help. Thanks a lot!