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I don't care about height too much nor any other stuff that seems petty. However, these are my deal-breakers and if I lower my standards even more, then I would feel like I'm settling:

1) Cruel to others and animals
2) Having a past record of violence or drug related charges
3) Drinks and parties too much
4) Slept around in the past (threesomes, casual sex, paying escorts, friends with benefits ... anything outside a committed relationship); now if all his relationships lasted only a couple months then that's also a Red Flag to me
5) Is obese and has no motivations in life
6) Is very frugal to the point of always splitting the bill 50/50 and never switching turns or always using coupons on ever single hang-out

Now in the last one, notice I didn't say there is anything wrong with splitting the bill but would like taking turns (for instance, I'll pay one day and next time he does... and vice-versa) and doing romatic things for one another every now and then. If that's too much, he's going to be even counting his cents and he's going to be screaming out ''but it's 2014, it's equality'' that's would turn me off.