Search Results: being guarded

Why do most guys want to be the alpha in the most safest & lamest way?

I've been around guys throughout my school years & throughout many gyms in my lifetime who put up a bravado act around their friends or think there some "animal" because they lift a lot of iron & YET none of them...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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When will the bullying stop? When is too far enough? What or who is creating more of these ill willed people?

What makes a person friendly? What makes you want to show someone your soft belly rather than hard shell that is your conservation? Does it get easier to trust people once you find a person you can open up too? I have...

constant_freeflow

Xper 6 Age: 34

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Debunking the “wimpy Asian” stereotype

For many years, Asians, especially Asian men have been stereotyped as being wimpy individuals based on how Asians tend to be shorter and slimmer on average than other races. But this assumption of weakness is unwarranted...

ADFSDF1996

Influencer Age: 30

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How do you not be nervous on a first date?

I've gone on two dates with two different girls and both commented on me being uncomfortable. The first girl said I looked tense. Lol that was like the first thing she said when we sat down and in my opinion I was...

red324

Guru Age: 37

WTF is wrong with Sweden?

Asap rocky reportedly was in a confrontation with 2 Swedish guys this past week. After being constantly harassed by the 2 guys ASAP and crew decided to defend themselves after being followed and the security guard...

lofii

Yoda Age: 31

Does he actually like me or is he using me?

I've known this guy for 5 months and we have made it clear that we like each other and sometimes he more than me but he was dating another girl and supposedly was close with. During the beginning of our summer we started...

Whymelord

Xper 4 Age: 24

Do you think liberalism is making women vulnerable?

Liberalism is making women put their guards down and even ignore the red flags and they are being oblivious to the dangers. I genuinely think that ending certain boundaries is making women vulnerable. I just read a...

Shezadi

Yoda Age: 27

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Why do people keep staring at me?

Okay, i promise you that i'm not assuming or imagining this, First, there's this girl in my class that keeps staring at me, when we first met, she kept looking at me, i didn't mind it, then guys started looking at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend as my gym coach and my totally embarrassing moment? Should I quit?

My boyfriend has taken it upon himself to be my workout coach lol. We're both trying to be in the best shape of our lives & have been hitting the gym so much lately. He really motivates me to put in my all because he is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Ladies, do you or would you find a man unattractive because he broke down and cried to you?

Men seem to think that we somehow lose respect for men and find them unattractive. They say they aren't allowed to cry on our shoulders. Is this how you feel? I actually see a man's strength when they can let their...

PinkMichae

Guru Age: 50

Should I believe her or go with my gut?

Okay so I’ve been dating a girl in the military (guard) and she went to Hawaii to be stationed there for a couple weeks. I get a Snapchat from her meant for another friend that says she’s nervous about her commanding...

AmusingAnon

Xper 3 Age: 31

I need your opinion you guys?

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and I’ve been dealing with a lot since I suffer from depression and insecurity so sometimes I overthink a lot so last night when my boyfriend slept over I asked him a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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The Truth About Life In The Manzanar Internment Camp

In Poland we have a saying, "Podróże kształcą". It basically means, "Travels Educated". And the more I travel, the more I believe this to be true. I recently visited the Manzanar Internment Camp in Eastern California, and...

ZeussLightningBolt

Editor Age: 34

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Why did he stop hooking up after couple of meets he cut me off completely why's that?

So me and this guy have been hooking for about 3 weeks and we had sex. We met up at 9 and talked till 12am. About how we know each other since school. I ended up telling him I missed him and I had feeling for him....

Anonymous

(25-29)

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What's more important to you: guarding your boundaries or being nice to people?

I don't know if I'm the only one that struggles with this, but sometimes I put myself in situations where I'm uncomfortable just to make other people happy and/or to be polite. For example, if someone I'm not close to...

Anonymous

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Is it right I hate my personality and most likely I’ll never date because of it?

Is it right I hate my personality? Ok so I have very sensitive and caring side in me and it comes out when I really like a girl but it acts a double ended sword. Because if the girl dosent feel that same way about you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would he call himself that?

I've been seeing this guy for roughly 6 months, we've been taking it very slow - as that is what we are both comfortable with. So we have not put labels on each other at all. Recently, I'd say for the last 2-3 weeks, he's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How can I stop blushing all the time?

Anything will make me blush, being surprised, caught off guard, talking to girls I don’t know, boys that are cute, speaking in front of the class or to my teacher... Literally anything will trigger it and I don’t know how...

Laurynnnnnnn

Xper 5 Age: 22