When will the bullying stop? When is too far enough? What or who is creating more of these ill willed people?

[constant_freeflow]

What makes a person friendly? What makes you want to show someone your soft belly rather than hard shell that is your conservation? Does it get easier to trust people once you find a person you can open up too?

How many people are looking outside their window thinking “are you like me?”

I have been quite busy social lite in my younger years being friendly to as many people as I can. Great first impressions, natural flow of conversations, topics of interest aren’t hard to find. This is sound peace of mind is fray trained by the sudden change in demeanor and warmth by the ones you felt were going to be your family outside of your family. One minute you are saying hi to someone and exchanging jokes , the next they ignore your greetings and do anything to show you are a walking outlier of a broken person when they are in social circle deemed as a “trendy” in their community. Yes some do go as far as to never claim to have ever shared any light hearted moments. This is one very basic experience and while the logical thing is to move on and not bother, unfortunately their are those who begin to obsess to test you and see what your reaction will be.

Snap already, we want to laugh , entertain us, it’s funny that you are helpless and I am safe

In some places if someone crosses you “fight them”

In other places you “sue them”

What happens when fighting them only makes you a bigger target? Is getting shot or stabbed or jumped worth it if they are sore losers? Is getting a criminal record worth a expectation of street cred and respect that will be thrown out once they decide to sneak attack you when you let your guard down? What happens when the law doesn’t do enough and you are not supported in your endeavors to convince the system your bully is not willing to give up on damaging you in any way they can? Relocation? Restraining order? Film them and keep up on the charges? I know the solution is already out their but the execution in which one has to go through to obtain this physical evidence is more than what victims can take once they are not there in their self rationalization. What will it take to stop all forms of bullying and blackmailing? How many people have to snap and become another statistic in a school shooting or a job melt down? If this was a dog eat dog world , your so called champions would have food poisoning that is a taste of their own medicine but it isn’t the case. Brute force isn’t what is keeping this trend alive. Psychology and technology? It adds to it I can see that but what adds to the drive in creating more lunatics? That question I will leave too you. Thank you for reading this was mearly a thought 💭 bubble that baffles me. My lack of grammar and pronunciations correction is acknowledged.

[btbc92]

Not true at all. As a person who has been constant victim a bullying, I have been threatened to be killed, and everything else that you can imagine. These people are evil and they need to be reprimanded for the actions. Bullying comes from lack of proper parenting and neglect from home. Good well-rounded kids come from secure attachment styles. Bullying happens more because people do nothing about it and they don't care. Nobody's going to become a man or woman strictly by just standing up to a bully. And we need to stop trying to tell people that. To become man or woman is a choice. I didn't become a woman by stepping up to my bullies. I became a woman when I made the decision that I was going to be a woman. Because even now as a woman I still get bullied. Plenty of people are adults on here and they still get bullied by other adults. What's going to be the next stage of adulthood becoming a sage? God level? No, this is real life. And I have met plenty of people what able to overcome without having to need to bully others back. Because once you a bully you are a bully and nobody wants anything to do with the bully even if it's out of self-defense. People who don't fit in and stand out in the crowd is always going to get bullied. No matter what you do. That's life. And even if you do for it in a way, they will still bully you. People bully you because you are a threat to their existence and they want you gone.

[btbc92]

In response to @OrderofChaos33

[btbc92]

Asker, as long as there is wickedness, darkness, and send in the world bullying will never stop. That's why I leave it in God's hands because he is the only one that can truly Rectify this problem when the world had a chance to get it right. All you can do is try to protect yourself, defend and protect others who was unable to do so for themselves, and just learn from your experiences as I had to do for myself. Kindness, love and light comes from within the soul. When the soul is Tainted with darkness then all it will spew out is Darkness. Bullying Behavior can be mimicked and taught especially from parents. But in some cases as I have explained it before it comes from bad parenting and physical and emotional neglect. You have two spectrums I noticed: dismissive parenting or parents who are buddy buddy with their kids to even be blinded by their child's behavior until somebody points out the criminal activity to the parent. In other words, their in senile and think their child can't do no wrong. The next is where the child is forced to grow uo on their own. Especially from single parent homes where the one or the other is fooling around sexually with the opposite sex. Or the parental figure is very abusive.

[btbc92]

I have went to school with such bullies actually get into gangs especially in New York City, and have weapons to make sure to kill you, of get siblings or friends that are in them to have you assisinated. That's real life. Not just victims taking their life. Even the girls getting raped by their bullies. People better wake up. Because it's not what you always see on television or read in fictional novels. People get shot, hurt, and killed for real and I still suffer from some form of pstd from those experiences.

[MX931]

So many questions at once. Let's see... 1. The bullying will stop, when you make it stop. Of course a buliied person feels helpless. But waiting usually doesn't improve any life circumstances. Talking about it and opening up might get you support to either deal with it or find a way around it. 2. It's probably a combination of group dynamics (if you can push someone down in a group that makes you feel superior and powerful) and a bad ethical system (cannot reflect whats wrong or right)
3. A person is considered friendly when he/she treats you with respect and shows interest in you and your well-being. 4. I usually show my soft belly to friends i can trust and if someone else is opening up about something. This way we show mutual trust and we both see life is not all gold and glamor.

[Rocky_Jocky57]

Bullies will never go away. They will be there when your a child, teen, adult, elderly. Honestly, the best way to get rid of a bully us either take matters in you own hands 👊 👊, get a higher authority to put an end to that person, talk and see if matters can be worked out, or get some good friends to assist 👊 👊.

No matter what thing is put in place or millions conferences are held, little shits won't give up most of the time.

[OrderofChaos33]

Bullying is never gonna stop because people will always be who they are and do what they do. Anti-bullying campaigns in my opinion make the bullying worse. Run and tell on the bully nothing changes the bullying gets even worse. You have to learn to bully the bully and that is how you become a man and how your kids will become a man otherwise you grow up to be a weak adult who gets bulled in the real world.

[joyboy12]

Blame the bullies parents because people are a product of them. Then you should blame the teachers who dont act on it or make the victim look bad. Blame the school system forcing extraverted bias.

[Alexis1992]

Never gonna stop cause adults do it to.