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I don't want my girlfriend to work out. Is that bad?

I am slightly larger than average male (fat wise) and I have a girlfriend who is smaller and much more average sized than me. Recently however she has been starting to lose weight out of the blue. I do not view this as...
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How do guys view me?

I wanna know how you think guys view me based on my experiences. Recently I’ve been discovering or think I’m discovering that I’m not really girlfriend material. From what I’ve been told or presented, being a girlfriend...
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He is perfect, but I’m too insecure?

I met a guy at my school, and he is truly perfect. He has a handsome face, works out, and has an amazing personality. I’d really rate him a 10. I’ve never met anyone that’s a 10 before. I’ve only known him for a month...
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Girls, Is the below normal (re: race, assumptions and workplaces) ?

I’m average looking and of an ethnic minority. I look 26. My 56 yr old ex boss was a morbidly obese guy that ‘warned’ me when joining - that he and his colleagues were worried I’d fall in love/ become infatuated with...
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Girls, Why does she act odd with me I just keep to myself?

I moved to a different city to study at university. I have been a natural athlete in bodybuilding since I was 14 , thus when I moved I decided to join my local gym which is mainly full of university students. However,...
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I Just Finished Tuca and Bertie on Netflix. I Hate it. Here's Why... (Show Spoilers)

If you're a fan of Netflix's Bojack Horseman, and regularly surf around the streaming service, you've probably at least seen a newer series, Tuca and Bertie. At a glance, you'll notice that the art style is practically...
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Should I stay at my current job that I suck at, even though my boss says differently?

First real job out of college. I made mistakes and I think I make more than the average worker there but my boss states differently. Saying that I shouldn’t compare myself to people and I don’t know what she discusses...
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First real job out of college. I made mistakes and I think I make more than the average worker there but my boss states differently. Saying that I shouldn’t compare myself to people and I don’t know what she discusses with other workers. Work in higher education.
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How does your life compare to others that you went to high school with?

My life was kinda shit in high school but things fell apart even more afterwards. I flunked out of high school, had bad anxiety, could barely get a job. I worked mostly seasonal at first. Dealt with bitchy women and...
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What would you do?

I'm 29, have two degrees that are useless. I'm far from a relationship. So life seems to be treating me pretty fair. I hate to rub in all of your faces. Sorry not sorry. I've enrolled back into college going into the...
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Why everyone should participate in Ramadan even if you are not Muslim

I am not Muslim myself and maybe I am being biased since both my parents are though. However I still practice the physical aspects of fasting though and here is why. Also I am going to explain why I think everyone should...
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My Korean boyfriend's mom does not like me?

I am in an international relationship with a Korean guy, we have been dating since 3 years. Every 6 months we meet in each other s countries. Last winter he and his mom came to my country. For two days, his mom met my...
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What are some ways to help someone cope with mild depression or feeling stuck?

Lately I feel a little stuck and behind in life compared to my classmates and friends. They're all graduating and moving out, getting married, having kids, etc. Even though I know this is just a feeling and everyone has...
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Am I too jealous and insecure?

So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than a year. I’m very insecure and I have had an eating disorder and depression. Because of this all I do is compare myself to other girls, which can make me...
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Insecurity in myself?

I am so insecure in everything I do. I always compare myself to other girls, i’ve literally screenshotted people’s instagram posts to compare them to mine and if I feel I don’t measure up, i won't post. I feel so ugly ALL...
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Have you ever friendzoned a girl after a few dates?

Guys, what are your reasons for friendzoning a girl? That's what happened to me. The guy I was seeing put my hopes up, lead me on and broke my heart. He decided he only wanted to be friends and never take it to the...
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My professor makes me feel bad about myself. What should I do?

So I’m a sophomore in college and I’m studying music education. I’ve been playing the tuba for almost 10 years now, but I’ve never taken private lessons until my second semester as a college freshman. Anyway, when I...
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How can I overcome my anxiety and insecurities?

I’ve become so insecure.. and I have no self love sometimes.. I think I’m ugly or fat and I compare myself to others.. how can I overcome all this
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Why is it hard to give up addictions & why can't they understand?

I've been bulimic for almost a little over a year, it used to be other eating disorders though. Even when I only eat twice or three times a day its not meals its like small things i just have to get it out right after its...
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A female cashier told me that I look very beautiful, but I honestly find myself plain pretty not extraordinary. Is she telling the truth?

Not being obnoxious, but I find myself pretty but just the average pretty as I know many other girls who are really beautiful as compared to me. Hence, if a cashier told me that i look 'very beautiful', is she telling the...
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How would you rate your confidence?

As for me I rate my confidence as very high. I don't seek validation from anybody nor do I really give a fuck about opinions. I'm attractive and embrace/love who I am. I take pride in taking care of myself, exercising,...
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As for me I rate my confidence as very high. I don't seek validation from anybody nor do I really give a fuck about opinions. I'm attractive and embrace/love who I am. I take pride in Show More
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