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Im just curious bc i see guys -aometimes women- often saying how women should flirt by asking Men to do things makes them feel good about themseves--as if it wouldn't make anyone feel good if their crush asked them for their compitent help.

I find this curious because I would think anyone would feel good about that.

I would feel fantstic if a guy i liked asked me to help him with something. It makes me feel first of all good bc i like being asked fopr help from anyone. I like to use my strength and competince for good, its nice when people trust you to help, especially if its a guy i like. i feel appreciated trusted and respected, and seen as a person not just reduced to a sterortype that he's trying to flirt with. It instills me with more confiudence that he's going to relate to me as a fiull human being. Id much prtefer he ask for help, involve me in somethinfg id actually be hoinored to help with, rather than hide himself bc he's trying to pretend he's invincible and doesn't need help. When in reality hell just end up asking someone else. As if im naive and am supposed to think he magically never needs help. Being asled fpr helop is the opposite of insult.

Plus we get to see each other in anothere perspective, and physical activity bonds people. If you feel shy you dont have to talk because you're busy physically. It lowers stress releases positive endorphans, And its fun!